As a single, divorced father, who ventured in to date women about a year after my divorce, I’ve had my fare share of dates that lead to nowhere and dates that lead to sex. However, being so well aware of female nature and no longer putting up with a woman who had any of the negative quality’s my ex-wife did it, lead to a realization that “is it really worth digging through a stack of nails to find that diamond?” No.

As men, we are all instinctively wired to want to have sex with a woman we find attractive. This was the only thing keeping me from completely going my own way and focusing on myself and my child. Women still had something valuable to offer me and that was only sex. However, to get that sex from women nowadays, there are 3 upfront costs you will risk wasting and 4 negatively life changing or life ending backend costs after the sex. Here are the 7 costs...

The 3 upfront costs to get sex: Time | Money | Energy

The 4 backend costs after sex: STD’s | Pregnancy | False Rape Allegations | Crazy Bitch Syndrome (A male coworker was killed by his girlfriend from this)

Men have to understand these 7 costs when dealing with women. And quite frankly, when you sit there and analyze it, the juice is not worth the squeeze in today’s age. The upfront costs are easy to swallow compared to the backend costs but it’s still wasted resources. This is all just to have condom sex which is inferior to the level of pleasure that you get with raw sex. Any red-pilled man in today’s age will not insert his penis into a woman without a condom on it. I’ve recently purchased a quality sex toy and with some quality lube, that has given me sexual pleasure meeting or exceeding that of the raw sex that I had with my attractive ex-wife and beyond that of the condom sex that I had with the women after my divorce. All with no worries of the 7 costs I listed above.

Men, invest in a quality sexy toy if you haven’t and some good lube and use porn to help stimulate the mind. This will render women useless as you compare the pleasures you get from that which feels just like the real thing (In my opinion) without a condom versus dealing with the potential 7 costs just for some mediocre condom sex...