It pisses me off. I have this good friend and since his relation is now in the 4th year he is kind of on/off and calls me whenever he is available which is mostly when his girlfriend is away.

Whenever he is here (he has a long distance thing with her 2 hours away and she lives where i live) he focusses 99% of his time on her and whenever i see him he is with her and he/she leave at the same time.

It annoys me. It feels like you dont get anything out of this friendship anymore. Maybe im too hung up on the good times. The irony is his GF is partying all the time when he is away so its basically just that shes already looking for another chad. I ask myself if these men are just slaves to their biology.