There are two ways of getting sex via dating or marriage: be an alpha who attracts her with your looks or be a beta who gives off provider vibes. Either she is attracted your your looks or your money.

If you are beta and your only choice is to be a provider, I feel it may be worth it to just go to a prostitute where you can control your expenditure. You can go more or less frequently to a brothel to meet your budget. However, with a wife you pretty much need to give her as much money as she pleases under threat of divorce rape.

Another option is to be an alpha. For someone who is born beta he will need to turn alpha. Once alpha there is the risk of impregnating her which leads to being on the hook for alimony and child maintenance thereby turning the alpha effectively into a beta provider. It seems as if the most effective way of getting sex is as an alpha Chad with a vasectomy. However, what about the costs if going to the nightclub or buying drinks?