What MGTOW is not

BitcoinBoffin · 2019-11-01T07:05:00+00:00

Point 2 is my only contention. Waking up to the red pill to find yourself in a failing marriage, strapped onto life's conveyor belt moving towards your inevitable divorce-rape & financial destruction can be a pretty unenviable & vulnerable position to find oneself in. Sure prevention is better than any cure, but MGTOW transpires age, race & creed. A lot of Boomers & Gen Xer's got married a decade or more ago, long before MGTOW even had an acronym. I will, & happily have shared with my fellow men the strategies that helped me get out of my similar predicament as unscathed as possible.

Tellnone25 · 2019-11-01T07:14:15+00:00

That is why Gatekeeping is important. We don't need these infiltrators coming in and changing things in order to satisfy their idiotic morals. They need to adapt and accept.

I mean I'm half white and half mexican and love Japan and their culture and don't wish to change it. I adapted and accepted their culture all the way from the US .

BlackPillPusher · 2019-11-01T07:30:12+00:00

Someone really needs to start a sub called r/askredpilledmen

That would solve alot of our problems. The rest of reddit is so cucked that alot of men and even some women are struggling to get any decent advice from anyone because everyones trying to be kind and loving to each other instead of telling them the cold hard truth. They come here asking us for relationship advice because they know we'll set them straight and get right down to the nitty gritty with them and not beat around the bush and sell them a lie like a lot of other subs.

simplisticallysimple · 2019-11-01T11:12:32+00:00

"I regret going MGTOW." -- Said no man ever

"I regret getting married," on the other hand...

It's clear which is the correct objective decision once we get rid of that debilitating thirst and think logically.

RedPilledLife · 2019-11-01T09:33:27+00:00

" MGTOW is not meant to provide advice for marital affairs, you got married? You signed a contract with the system and a woman as it's agent, you failed to heed our advice and now you have your balls in a vice grip, the only thing you are is an example of what men shouldn't do. "

What a goddamn bullshit, first of all, who the fuck are you to decide what MGTOW is or isn't, who made you the MGTOW overlord?

I would love to have a discussion over the selection procedure.

Secondly, if a guy comes here to look for advice how to get out of the relation/marriage mess he worked himself into he is (at least imho) more then welkom to obtain advice from other victims, if we can't help our brothers in need then who the fuck does?

kataklysmic1 · 2019-11-01T06:35:13+00:00

Amen brother. This needs to be said early and often.

TigPlaze · 2019-11-01T13:55:47+00:00

I agree with all these points. I would add one: MGTOW is not an attempt to get women to clean up their act from their shitty behavior or to reform the system. That would be MRA. I respect the MRA dudes, but they're fighting an uphill battle. MGTOW is a self-defense mechanism much like an ejector seat in a fighter plane. Everything is so fucked up, our only chance to survive and have a good life is just to eject from the dating and marriage bullshit and then life life on our own terms. Doing that won't make unethical women see the error of their ways, but it will allow us to escape most of their shit.

yooshio · 2019-11-01T11:22:41+00:00

The flooding is here, but the tsunami is coming...

This sub used to be hard liquor...now its a mai tai with slices of pinneapple and an umbrella hanging off to the side.

SMH

901735 · 2019-11-01T08:45:36+00:00

Happy gymming.

weregamba · 2019-11-01T10:40:23+00:00

Somebody had to say it.

lone_nordic_wolf · 2019-11-01T13:57:05+00:00

Preach!

At the common denominator... MGTOW is the general philosophy of self-ownership and sovereignty in a world full of systems that want you on your knees.

U-94 · 2019-11-01T11:42:01+00:00

I am grateful for my 'cool' female friends that I've known for years. A stranger may walk into the situation and say "Wow, she's a unicorn" (not in those exact words) but I've seen how they have acted before and it has prepared me for any new women I meet. Like a great financial deal, there's always a catch. Even if you win the lottery, you're still paying taxes.

usernametakenbs · 2019-11-01T11:28:28+00:00

Can we add its also not a political sub?

xinxinel · 2019-11-01T13:39:14+00:00

MGTOW is doing what u want, don't throw rules on it

berite1day · 2019-11-01T16:04:02+00:00

I'm so grateful I didn't sign that contract!

yooshio · 2019-11-01T13:00:47+00:00

So... you forgot to lecture people about the Chief and really only important bullet: MGTOW is not a movement.

But most importantly it's about going your own way and figuring out what that means for you. I agree this isn't a dating sub, but it is possible to be married and still be MGTOW.

You see, in your attempt to decide what going everyone else's way is supposed to be, you made the mistake of treating this idea like some sort of collective... like a movement hence why you didn't explicitly say MGTOW isn't a movement. Which it most certainly is not.

You seem obsessed with labels and people confirming to going your way. You're not quite MGTOW yet and though you pointed out some valid points, you then decided to take it upon yourself to establish rules.

Hope your gym was productive. Maybe your understanding of MGTOW will be just as, eventually.

JohnPettimore · 2019-11-01T13:20:47+00:00

MGTOW is also not something you, or anyone, gets to define or set out rules for. Remember?

2019-11-01T14:51:54+00:00

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fixhuskarult · 2019-11-01T15:32:28+00:00

Who hurt you?

Title	What MGTOW is not
Author	BlackPillPusher
Upvotes	298
Comments	89
Date	November 1, 2019 6:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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