You often get this, and sure, there are some guys that can't help but fraternize with the enemy (which is about as productive as shouting to a wall)

For me it's a therapeutic outlet akin to how hospitality staff have groups where they share stories about the audacity of the customers they serve because they can't laugh in their face at work

What women don't understand is that we run into these kinds of women every day, and telling the truth simply doesn't achieve anything for you or for them, so I just have to enjoy my life and then come on reddit to laugh at the absurdity of the situation