People complain how they hate being alone and think it's a punishment. They blame themselves for not being good with women and think it's the reason for all their misery. Many young men will ask for advice on being better with women and they are willing to get rid of their old hobbies just to attract women. Society will tell them to fix their flaws and change themselves because they don't deserve a woman right now. Why can't a guy get a girl by being himself? How does being in a relationship improve your life if you have to hide your real personality? Do people measure their value by validation from society?