Why does damn near every woman have an Abusive ex?

altburger69 · 2019-08-20T15:09:50+00:00

They don't... they are lying for sympathetic attention.

BadHabit83 · 2019-08-20T15:28:53+00:00

Because these things mean abuse to them:

Not agreeing with them.
Calling them out on mistakes, past, present or future
Not giving her what she wants
Not stroking her ego
Not allowing her to fuck around
Ignoring her to avoid an argument
Not giving into her demand for drama
Not doing what she says
Being honest with her

313T · 2019-08-20T15:12:36+00:00

Any relationship that don’t work out the woman will always accuse the man of being either abusive or not being more attentive or caring. It’s all a joke..

CuntMonteCristo · 2019-08-20T15:14:25+00:00

My friend you have to add the word claim

Why does damn near every woman CLAIM to have an Abusive ex?

TigPlaze · 2019-08-20T15:28:24+00:00

"Abusive ex" translates to "ex who called me out on my bullshit."

Iqbal40862715 · 2019-08-20T15:16:14+00:00

its a slimy move broads do to absolve themselves of responsibility

maybe 1-3 percent of the time the guy was legit abusive

odds are she was a shrill miserable nagging twat whose behavior derailed the relationship. they cant take responsibility for their actions so they project it onto their exes

anything to save face

KneeDeepThought · 2019-08-20T15:48:11+00:00

My ex chased me with a frying pan, hit me, and screamed at me in an uncontrolled rage. I pushed her away and she told her sister I was "abusive" and "hit her."

RT-AC66U · 2019-08-20T15:13:04+00:00

Projection.

eduardkoopman · 2019-08-20T15:31:37+00:00

2 main reasons.

Abusive is often mis-used. If a man didn't do everything she wanted, or he stood up for his own wants. Then it's regularly already called abusive, while in reality it's just a man keeping his own best interest and happiness at first place. Plenty attractive men (since they have options) have and do this; and women are mostly going for attractive men. Hence this is common.
Plenty women like dark traits in men. So men with these dark triats, if they pass the looks barrier, are seen as more attractive then a man that's psychologically healthy.

cursed_deity · 2019-08-20T15:58:06+00:00

it's a little bit of actively seeking out dirtbags and a little bit of playing the victim

my ex was abused by all of her exes, so i was very careful with her to never overstep my boundries.

when we broke up the literal same day she was telling people i used her for sex and she felt raped

smh can't fix crazy

gallagher_for_hart · 2019-08-20T15:11:41+00:00

r/relationship_advice is a horrible subreddit all of the stories are mostly fake or exaggerated.

DerdyG · 2019-08-20T16:06:14+00:00

they didn't get what they wanted = abusive

user_miki · 2019-08-20T16:34:30+00:00

That means one of 2 things.Or all the men encountered by these women were toxic and abusive(not plausible),or they lied for attention.Before internet we would believe these things now when we compared data and see that all women said the same thing all the lies came out.This shows also lack of imagination from their part.If the victimization market wants to hear trigger word "abusive" they will use that ad nauseam.

MiddleAgedMGTOW · 2019-08-20T15:41:15+00:00

We live in a society that venerates victims. This is the result.

KneeDeepThought · 2019-08-20T16:52:52+00:00

It's far easier for a woman to claim victim status on every single relationship exit than face the fact that he was right for dumping her. It also gains them attention, resources, etc. and rallies everyone against him to destroy his life for daring to stand up for himself and have a little self-esteem. That'll teach em. It's a lesson we've learned so well that men are now "proud cucks," taking all the abuse forever because it's better than the WomanScorned^TM nuke she will drop on your life if you ever defy her. Nice one there ladies.

NathanHollister · 2019-08-20T16:04:58+00:00

They don't. They just lie.

[deleted] · 2019-08-20T19:32:49+00:00

Women go after abusive guys on purpose. Not all, but a lot. They are attracted to abusive alpha males. Again, not every alpha is abusive. I have watched women pursue these guys. So when a woman tells me that she’s tired of abusive men, all I hear is her saying that her slut phase is over and she now wants a dead bedroom marriage with a beta provider

Anshumansri · 2019-08-20T20:23:03+00:00

my ex girlfriend called me abusive as well, when in reality she was the abusive one... oh well. not gonna argue with broken logic

FightClubHamster69 · 2019-08-20T15:37:05+00:00

The age old question. Women in general want a guy who’s broken so to speak, they want to fix the guy. Doesn’t end well for her usually. It’s a woman’s addiction to fix guys even the ones who aren’t. That’s why they don’t like nice guys till they’re old and ready to settle down. Just the way it is

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-08-20T17:27:19+00:00

Boredom

hl100orsmth · 2019-08-20T18:40:47+00:00

Almost none of them saw real abuse, which does happen.

If you are remotely red pilled, you are "abusive".

That word has lost all meaning thanks to those feminist degenerates that throw it around.

"omg he yelled at me after I was breaking his balls for 37 hours straight, he is so abusive"

Most women are just insane. 2019 society is ignoring reality but until when?

edgysecularist · 2019-08-20T20:18:35+00:00

I'm sure to HER it was "abuse" laughable

edgysecularist · 2019-08-20T20:20:37+00:00

something something herd like mentality something something lies

febreezing_hobos · 2019-08-20T20:44:55+00:00

It does not matter how good of a person you are. You will always be the villain in someones tragedy of a story.

Givemeanamedamn · 2019-08-20T21:34:56+00:00

Its so true, the two guys I hang out with at work, both said recently that their gfs had abusive exs, as an example. I can just imagine the emotional baggage those girls bring, and the guys are really laid back and decent. I think one of the gfs is physically abusive even... I'd rather be by myself.

Ahielia · 2019-08-20T21:47:33+00:00

That the ex wasn't a blue pill simp, maybe?

Yes, that's exactly what it means.

tw-1234a · 2019-08-20T23:13:19+00:00

What are they going to say: he wax wonderful but I shit all over him anyway? Abuse is the only acceptable reason.

Title	Why does damn near every woman have an Abusive ex?
Author	NightOuts
Upvotes	63
Comments	49
Date	August 20, 2019 3:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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