We all know that money, status, looks and game(social intelligence ) attracts women.

However, it seems that most of the manosphere is obsessed with either looks or game( even incels, Black pillers etc).

The reasoning goes like this:

(1) Either social intelligence works or (2) I’m hopeless it’s all about looks.

Notice that both looks and game are mostly linked to genetics and are harder to change. For instance, some people are born being social butterflies while others are autistic. At the time, some people it’s easier to lose weight while for others it’s not...etc.

I simply can’t take most of these guys seriously nor feel bad for them given that I met people who had poor social intelligence and poor looks yet we’re getting laid a lot. A famous example is Harvey Weinstein, there are a lot of other guys like promoters, local musicians...among countless of others who were getting laid, getting girlfriends.

Most of these guys will say they are ‘contextual alphas’. However, it seems to me it would be much better to be a contextual alpha than to waste all these time with fantasies of an actual alpha(given how even natural as are leveraging status in the form of social circle game).

At least MGTOW seemed to understand reality and use it to their advantage, banging escorts, caring much less about women.