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Why the resentment towards Chad?

February 1, 2018

I see posts here every day bitterly disparaging Chad. If we are truly going our own way, why feel resentment towards the very small percentage of men who won the genetic lottery, have a high earning power and have a natural skill with gaming women?

I'll admit that I have felt jealous of certain men, particularly the guy my Ex couldn't get over. He was handsome, confident, wealthy, while also "manipulative" and "toxic" according to my Ex. I've driven myself crazy with jealousy over "Why couldn't she have the same passion for me that she had for him? I treated her well, I respected her, I committed to her, etc..."

At the end of the day, this anger and resentment towards Chad gets me nowhere. The only person to be angry at is myself for letting women dictate my self-worth for so long. Getting angry at other men serves no positive purpose whatsoever. If we're going our own way, our own mission is the only thing that matters.

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Title Why the resentment towards Chad?
Author dontbedenied
Upvotes 47
Comments 57
Date February 1, 2018 5:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MGTOW
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/why-the-resentment-towards-chad.599001
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7ukbap/why_the_resentment_towards_chad/
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[–][deleted] 55 points56 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm very grateful to Chads because those simpletons have shown me what women are really like. And what I've seen, can not be unseen. They saved me lots of cash, heartache and a life of indentured servitude perhaps...

[–][deleted] 29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

We don't hate Chad. We don't even hate women. We just recognize the female nature and do our best to survive it/avoid it.

[–]secant12822 points23 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I know chads that are mgtow as well, no resentment.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a retired Chad. Only when you experience being the other guy do you know the true nature of women. No one had to tell me to go mgtow, I'm just glad to see I'm not the only one

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Of course there's good looking males with their shit together that are MGTOWS. It's when we realise that the juice ain't really worth the squeeze and have seen female nature first hand (married women cheating with you for example).

[–]BoskOfPortKar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol nobody has resentment towards “ chads” but incels that pop every once in awhile

[–]DangZagnut21 points22 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Chad is a meme

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My boss is named Chad. He seems ok.

[–]gods_bones8 points9 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

You're right. We should feel sympathy for Chad. He's an endangered species growing more and more extinct every day. #SaveTheChads

[–]8017357 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Think of the Chadren.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]ArsenicPoison-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Makes no sense. They are fitter than you and they are fucking girls meaning they are reproducing. That means they arent endangered. Your endangered.

[–]gods_bones6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Look around. Every generation of boys grows up softer and more effeminate than the generation that came before it. Your idea of Chad today is nothing compared to the Beta Bob of the 17th and 18th century. And those guys are nothing compared to the men of the 12th and 13th century. Masculinity is slowly being eroded away and men continue to grow weaker as the decades move on. Soon, Chad will be nothing but a dinosaur fossil.

[–]Dorfler77772 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Having offspring and raising your offspring are two very different things. Any halfwit and moron can impregnate any retard. But how those parents raise those kids is the important aspect.

Whats the point of Chad having a bunch of kids with a bunch of girls then splitting, leaving his offspring watch mommy go through a train of men, leaving the kids to be social and emotional fuckups who end up emo or male feminists because of a "single mom". The same thing happens when Chad gets married to the wrong chick, has kids, they begin their arguing and hating each other phase, then she divorces his ass and cleans him out. The kids will be equally as fucked up as if he had just ditched them.

Look at most millennials today. Majority of them come from such scenarios mentioned above. They're fucked. They wont be reproducing themselves.

[–]beastmodeking7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

simps aka blue pill men are angry at Chad. once you accept the redpill as reality I don't think many men are angry at Chad anymore

[–]Marque017 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds good to me.

Chad can have them :)

[–]SamCasey987 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Chads are like NWALT. They are temporary dream states that will ultimately collapse in a fit of despair. Your bitter disparagement is a misinterpretation of the brothers' issuing fair warning to others.

[–]BoskOfPortKar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chads are fucking alone. Even though they quickly realize the nature of women, they can still crave for one NAWALT and get married one day... and finish here for some of them...

[–]bonusfruit5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Non-chads, being human, want love and sex from women. Non-chad is told both directly and indirectly since childhood that love and sex is earned by being nice, attentive, and supporting of women. And spending money on them. Non-chad tries this. It doesn't work. Confused non-Chad sees Chad being obnoxious and getting rewarded for it with endless pussy. Non-chad is confused and frustrated. Then non-Chad is told that he should never have expected love or sex just because he was nice, attentive, and spent money on women. Non-chad is an evil, entitled, oppressive rapist for ever thinking that playing by the rules he was taught to play by would get him anywhere. Non-chad discovers the redpill. Non-chad attempts to mimic chad. Fails. Non-chad disvovers the black pill, that chad is genitics. Without the hieght and looks, non-chad is merely a creep who treats women badly. Only chad can be obnoxious and get pussy for it. Non-chad is damned for trying, damned for failing, damned for expressing any frustration about the rules, damned for attempting to emulate Chad(pua). Non chad cannot win. Directing any hate toward women makes non-Chad a threat. Non-chad instead directs hate at Chad. There you go

[–]her_958_resistors0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chads also get cheated on, belittled, divorced and stripped from their resources. No one is safe from the female backstab, the pussy that bites. It’s just their nature.

[–]TheRuralJuror9185 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I once knew a fellow named Chad... whose life was far from bad... he had many ill's... like fraud and pills... they landed him in the Federal Pen!

True story about a Chad I knew growing up who, ironically, was actually named Chad.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t hate Chad unless he feels the need to prove his dominance over me and deliberately inconveniences me to do so.

[–]MesaBoogeyMan4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

My buddy is a Chad. He started dating this chic who just got out of a 4 year relationship. She said she only wanted to casually see each other for sex. He was like "cool!" 2 months later he told me they had huge fight over him not posting pictures of them on facebook. He said she immediately pulled the "what are we" . So he started posting photos of them in matching pjamas and shit.

Couple months later she started crying in a public place because she saw a new family with baby. My friend claims hes deadset against marriage and kids. So she lost it. Then she got angry he didnt want to look at getting a place together.

On weekends we had built a music studio in his basement. She freaked out saying "so you definitely dont want to move out"

This was a span of 5 months. Fast forward to yesterday. I asked if he wanted to make some music. His reply " yeah sounds good my gf works all weekend" ..... i cancelled and said. Nah second thought I got plans.

My idiot friend has no idea whats in store for him. Moral of the story? Chads are stupid.

[–]SuspectedLumber2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been a reader on here for over a year, between accounts - I've never seen one post "bitterly disparaging Chad". Seems to me you're trying to sneak in some kind of b.s.

[–]FUCK_REDDIT_222 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


allow those guys to vent about their shit this subreddit is a "hospital" for men to be healed and go their own way we don't need people complaining about them venting their fustrations of life here

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

10 or so years ago I probably would've been jealous of "Chad" and his ability to seem to get women on easy mode and wondered why so many girls fawned and/or were hung up on him despite bitching about him being an asshole/terrible bf.

Nowadays I just look at him as a PUA playing the life lottery and many are losing via having to pay child support and dealing with baby mama drama assuming he never settled down or had marriages that lasted less than 5 years.

[–]mgtow-zen2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I laugh at them.

[–]Aguyandamoose2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I rarely try to speak for everyone, but I think I can say most people have, at some point in their lives, been both the Chad and the beta orbiter. Hell, at one point in my life, I was the Chad and the beta with the same fucking girl. It was when I was in college, and she had a high school boyfriend who was a simp, but was genuinely one of the nicest dudes I have ever met in my life. She cheated on him with me, (first time I had the opportunity to be the one cheated with rather than the one cheated on) then told him about it, and when he tried to make it work, dumped him and started dating me, after which (In retrospect, it was oh so predictable. I know, I was a fucking moron at the time. Shut up.) point I became the beta and she started cheating on me with another dude. I dumped her, she started dating that dude, and then cheated on him, etc. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Either way, it made no difference, because it was the presence of the female that was the toxic influence on my life, not my position as a Chad or a simp. That girl fucked up my entire life for a few years, and all I have to show for it is the wisdom to never stick my balls in that bear trap ever again. So ultimately, I call it a fair trade.

[–]ManIsWalking1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Those damn Chase, taking all our womyans.... and our jobs!!!!

But seriously, there are MGTOW chads. It's not really a hate for chads, they are just part of the hypergamous formula. Imo, there should be more resentment twords Beta bux, as those are the true enablers of women's shit.

If Billy Beta wasn't there to finance these whores, some of them would think twice about fucking up their meal ticket.

[–]officerkondo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why the resentment towards Chad?

Why the resentment towards "the rich"? Same reason. We tend to hate that which we cannot have dangled in front of our face. The resentful ones are still in the anger phase. Sadly for them, many of them will never leave it.

I hasten to add that Chad is often MGTOW. In fact, many MGTOW men have never heard of "MGTOW". They are just high-status men who never commit to a woman long-term. Bill Maher and John Cusack are MGTOW, but they aren't monks, either.

Every man must determine his own path. As for me, I have come to think of women as water and fire were considered in days of yore: "a very good seruaunt, but it is a cruell mayster"

[–]Adiaphoron1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chad’s fun time is only a momentary fenomenon. He will fuck around for some time and then sooner or later his snowflake will get pregnant, his ass will be trapped or he will have to deal with some other sort of misery.

[–]account41891 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why do you disparage others for feelings? People can't control resentment anymore than they can control happiness or sadness. You can somewhat control actions - controlling emotions? Lol.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Because Chad is a PUA who preaches that pussy is the measure of male worth. No resentment to Chads who don't.

[–]Rimefang1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No resentment. A Chad took a girl I liked in HS after saying all the shit he liked about her. I was upset until later I learned I never hated him or even his actions. That's just the way things are. She was hot and we are the chasers. It was her I was upset at because after they broke up, I was essentially labeled "Plan B". HE broke up with her. I'm guessing he got sick of her shit.

It took a while for that to sink in, but sink in it did. Be nobody's safety net. Be nobody's footstool. A relationship is not servitude. It must be equal or it doesn't work. Why do you think there are so many divorces? Women are selfish, and we raise them on that ideal. Don't believe me? "My princess!", "Daddys little girl!", or my personal favorite, "You can do anything men can do." Sure you can. Come work in construction in 100+ degree weather. Come work a coal mine. No? You'd rather have A/C and a cozy job. Consider yourselves you are LUCKY enough to have the PRIVILEGE to speak your mind. Most middle eastern countries won't even let their women walk without being fully covered and accompanied by a man.

I don't hate women. I harbor no resentment. I just get sick of their shit. Want me to be considerate of your feelings? I got my own problems. Figure them out yourself. I lift to carry my own burden, not yours.

[–]Blogginginvicecity1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

As a man, I don't like feeling like a total bitch in comparison to another man.

[–]BigBenIsAwesome0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No one does as long as they aren't asshole. No one hates virgins either as long as they aren't bitter. If a guy doesn't like you it's probably not because of your sexual history.

[–]Freefrombitches1230 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't hate on Chad, he's going to get fucked over anyway

[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm Chad(ish). Most men have some of chad. I don't really see a resentment, chad usually get's pointed out in respect to the women

[–]Devok260 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont , chads stories make me laugh and give me some great red pills.

[–]I-am-the-lul0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

To me, Chads are just the guys who can attract women without wasting a lot of time and money, the important lesson about Chads is that when women wait until at least the 3rd date before they put out, it isn't because they have higher morals and not slutty, they just view you as a beta and the truth is if you are a Chad, they will willingly bang you the same night you met.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I always thought Chads to be kinda arrogant, never really got along with them except one guy he was cool

[–]Dorfler7777-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who hates Chad's? More Chad's are MGTOW than people realize. They simply know how to play the game better due to acquired attributes.

In fact I'd wager that there are far more Chad's that are MGTOW than beta losers.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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