For most women men are male orbiters, either cosnciously or only partly so. Ego boosters and narcissism feeders. You are nothing more than the living version of their digital like or comment on social media.

I will speak from my personal experience. Most women are liberals and feminists, which resonates with their narcissistic libertine nature. I've met only one "true tradcon" and she had a speech impairment, and an arm dysfiguration. And her mother became extremely religious so that her daughter will heal. I'm inclined to believe if she were normal, she would be a bimbo thot like all others.

Why personally i can't befriend them? First of all i can't find anyone i resonate with. At the level of beliefs, of interests, of ideology, of spirituality, and of mental prowess. Most are dull and uninteresting bimbos with no purpose in life. They climb into adulthood and beyond, and its like they wasted all those years for nothing. Yet are entitled like no other and overestimate their real worth ad infinitum.

Also i've never really felt at peace with them. You must always be on the edge. Always judged, weighed and slandered, deemed as a potential backup plan. And those who simply sit around, do it for the tingles and fun you can induce. If you are "boring", not secular enough, and don't entertain your mistress enough, you aren't even friendzone material.

They bring the worst self out of you. The chad, the antagonist of other men, the narcissist, the bully, the degenerate, the materialist. They drag you to patterns, hobbies and environments that poison your soul. They command to be the center of attention and take rejection very badly. They suck whatever knowledge and value they can from you but offer little in return.

Their very nature is counterintuitive towards friendship. Their emotions ever changing and ever fleeting. They worship you one day, despise you the next one. They embarass you one day at work, next day act as if nothing happened. They possess no word, no congruity, no accountability. The complete turnoff when you are looking for meaningful bonds.

The **"but girls offer a special kind of insight" nonsense mangina beggars usually claim.**

They have no special insight about life, no magical intuition. Only their "feelings" about it, and their biases. I've never had life changing conversations with them. Only exchanges that grew further my repulsion.

As the holy man says "in 1000 men i found one that brings peace to my heart (and indeed my few friends are the one in a thousand types), but even in 1000 women i found none".

Maybe i've met too few thousands of women. But do you know what? i'm good. not interested to explore this any further. i saw what i had to see. wanna go around for unicorn hunting? good luck.

and an important red pill edit. the "healers".

i've made a couple of times the mistake in the past to open up to women who saw through my repulsion and brokeness and tried to sneak in. even when they try to change your view about them, IT IS JUST ANOTHER NARCISSISM FEED. they think "what other women couldn't do i will achieve.' They have to prove you wrong. To entertain themselves. To find the reasons and the quirks like your psyche is a puzzle to solve. So be warned, when you find ones with the "nurse syndrome."