The Guardian - Why dark-skinned black girls like me aren't getting married

Fourth paragraph:

“The first eligible bachelor appears – not my type, I swipe left. Then another follows – too young, I swipe left again. Ten swipes in, and I find myself texting my eldest sister this was a bad idea. A feeling of vexation settles over me.”

Sixth paragraph: (just one sentence later!)

“I’ve spent so much time trying to understand what is so unattractive about me that men shun me.”

Men shun you? Or maybe—just maybe—could the problem be in the fourth paragraph?