I can accept the notion that females may have an instinct for hypergamy, but I reject the notion that they're obligated to give into it. If someone is rude to me, I have an instinct that punch them in the face. So far I've never done that because I'm in control of my actions. Same thing with the instinct to fuck hundreds of women. If you were some kind of rock star, you would have that available, but there's a huge risk in fucking that many women, risks in diseases, paternity suits, getting stalkers, etc. Despite an instinct to do that, you could choose not to.

So a woman marries a blue pill dude and they're all starry eyed and feeling good at first. She's taken vows before God to do things like “forsake all others" and to stay with him in the good times and in the bad times, "in sickness and in health." She's made a commitment, and one that our society considers sacred. So there's this notion that because she has a hypergamous instinct, she can't help but trade up if she gets the chance. Bullshit. The truth is, just like any of us, she doesn't have to be a slave to her instincts. She could choose to honour the commitments that she made or she could choose to dishonour herself by going against them. Feminists have been teaching women to be dishonourable, to just go with whichever way the wind happens to be blowing at the present time. In other words, according to them, she should simply blow off her commitments over a feelings change if that's inconvenient.

I submit that this is not necessarily inevitable. Without the mountains of bad advice for women out there propagated by the feminists and the trashy women's magazines, women might have the attitude of previous centuries that their commitments mean something. It's also extremely ironic that women complain so much about men's reluctance to commit to marriage. That reluctance is a self-preservation instinct. Men, even non-mgtow ones, sense that women's commitments aren't worth the paper that you wipe your ass on. It would actually be possible for marriage to work if women had not been brainwashed by feminist hogwash, if they didn't have the attitude, “if you feel like leaving, just sign your name on the dotted line.”