They constantly blame everyone and the world for their problems in life. At most, the "work" on themselves they will do is all centred around outward appearance to the world both physically and socially

It is all centred around other people and society, while men work towards Indipendence from society as much as possible and not giving a shit about other people's opinions

This is also the difference between socialism and capitalism. You can be the most free in capitalism because you can be an asshole to everyone around you and still have resources if you are competent, while in socialism you can be the most productive and smart but if you say the wrong thing or make someone u happy you will go the the gulag

It is regressive because it is tribal, and this is female existence. They are not happy because they base their existence on everyone else but themselves