First, I want to make 100 percent clear that Alexander Grace is not a bad guy. He posted a video about MGTOW that are his honest views. I happen to disagree with him, but I kept my response civil. I would ask that you not attack Mr. Grace. He's a good guy who's attempting to help men in their dealings with women. I'm not posting a link to his video because I'm not sure if it's allowed to link to an anti video, but you can find it if you find Alexander Grace on You Tube and his video titled "Debunking Extremism".

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Here's my response to him:

I like Alexander Grace's videos, but on this one I believe he's gotten his facts wrong. MGTOW has never been about hating women. It's about rejecting a system of dating and marriage where all the cards are stacked against men. The idea that MGTOWs are haters comes from the angry rants you often see on MGTOW discussion boards. However, if you'll look closer, you'll find that almost always a rant post is an objection to atrocious behavior by a woman. For example, my ex used her knowledge of me gained by the trust I had for her to empty my bank account and then go on a lavish vacation with her new boyfriend. I had to drop out of university for lack of funds because she did that. She even sent me a postcard from Tahiti to rub it in. I believe I have a justified grievance for that behavior, and that doesn't make me a misogynist. Feminism encourages women to engage in this type of hateful behavior. You can see examples in the reddit sub FemaleDatingStrategy. In that sub, they actively encourage women to take advantage of men by not only demanding that they pay for everything, but also demanding that they go to extremely expensive restaurants. In 2019 when gender equality is supposedly a thing, women are still demanding that men pay for everything, as if it were still the 1950s. Feminists have demanded that women be released from their gender roles, but they still hold men to theirs. Do you honestly believe that's fair?

A lot of men feel like that have to give in to that kind of manipulation or get dumped. This is the result of the game being totally stacked in women's favor. MGTOW lets men know you can take back your power by opting out of this unjust game. You don't have to allow women to take advantage of you like that. It gets even worse when you graduate to marriage. Once you're boxed in like that, she can destroy you economically and emotionally at any point when she, on a whim, chooses to divorce you. Marriage hasn't actually been "till death do us part" for many years now. It used to be a solid commitment for life. Today, it's more like, "Until I grow tired of you and decide to legally hijack half your assets." Men end up destitute both financially and emotionally because of marriage. I know of men living in their cars, despite having good jobs, thanks to divorce. MGTOW is not hate. On the contrary, it's a recognition of how dangerous the dating and marriage game is. Like the movie War Games, the only winning move is not to play. So we choose to opt out. It's a rational choice, not a hateful one. I protect myself via MGTOW, but I do not mistreat women in my daily life. I still have female friends and family members whom I care deeply about. I'm dedicated to treating women with fairness, even though that's not something that I've ever gotten from women, especially feminists.

I hope this information is useful to you, Alexander. I've tried to present it in a way that's fair and is free of ad hominem attacks. If you wish to address the points I make here in one of your videos, you have my support. Thanks.