I've seen comments from women calling mgtow men losers and women haters and stuff like that and it got me thinking about how an average man might spend his life and money in normal adulthood.

Graduate college -> Get job/career -> get married -> have 2 - 3 kids -> get house/mortgage -> get divorced -> lose house -> get remarried -> maybe have 1 more kid -> get second house -> retire -> die

Travel maybe once a year. Pay for 1 family focused car or truck and 1 family focused SUV. Pay for kids from birth through college. The needs of family will always come above your own needs but in between that you might have great experiences like traveling to foreign countries or have a really high paying job or start a business you'll experience love and affection.

A very costly life where most of your resources go to the family and serve their needs.

What mgtow looks to me like is

Graduate college -> get job/career -> get condo -> retire -> die

Travel alone to foreign countries more often...maybe twice a year. Pay for 1 sports car and 1 motorcycle. Maybe more likely to be an entrepreneur or devote self to high paying job, you will not experience the love from a longterm relationship or the love of children.

A less costly life where most of your resources stay in your hands and serve your needs but you will be alone.

Re-reading what I wrote I'm sure I would rather go with option B, which I'm doing right now but I wonder if I'll meet a woman that will make me want to risk option A. There's a girl at my favorite restaurant and she's so gorgeous I think I would pick option A if it was with her despite knowing the outcome.