I'm very involved in organizing a large social group that is at least 90% women, and I'm constantly appalled at their cluelessness. They've driven men away from the public spaces and don't have the slightest idea how men experience them or why men are avoiding them. I have seen again and again a man tries to join our community and he's driven out by their astonishing condescension and subtle-to-overt hostility.

I have tried to date a few over the last couple of years and it's always a disaster, it's like trying to date a ruthless judgmental committee. If I ask one for her phone number a dozen of them give me the stink eye the next day because I haven't asked them or whoever they think I should be dating for their phone number. They simply can't stop gossiping and complaining about men.

Probably 30% of them are married and they're constantly on the prowl, and their single peers don't have a clue that they're competing with the married ones. I have told a few of the single ones over the years and their response is to get angry at me, I kid you not.

The only way I hold my position of modest authority here is by keeping my mouth shut and never engaging them in conversation of any depth.

Our civilization is collapsing. The family unit is dying. Humanity is fucked.

I can hardly stand my own pessimism anymore and I need help.