MGTOW MOFOS!

So I was at the Thai consulate in Ho Chi Minh yesterday to apply to get a three month tourist VISA. You only get 30 days at a time and I was tired of going back every 30 days to Vietnam to reset for another 30 days Going back at the airport and also to have peace of mind. I am working on projects here and working out so having a 30 day “timer” until I have to drop what I am doing to handle the VISA was too much. Quality of life improves drastically when you have less things on your mind.

I’m giving you this background so you can know how much thought I put into wanting to get a 3 month VISA.

I go to the website and go through the requirements, three bank statement that shows I have money, no problem, proof of where I’m living and with who and their rental agreement, got it, picture ID, no problem, I’ll get everything else it says.

So I gather my stuff and book my ticket and here we are, yesterday. I’m at the counter handing my documents and I’m nervous because that’s why the fuck I am, an anxious mess of a human being when it comes to tackling situations. Dot my I’s and cross my T’s and check everything three times.

Then there is a guy next to me, on the phone, explaining that he is going to be in Thailand and has friends he is living with but no paperwork. They tell him what he needs, all that was on the website. He knew what he wanted, even saying it, but not acting like it. Just a dumbass, exactly the type of dumbass Thailand wants to keep from overstaying their welcome.

This helped me put things in perspective and looking back in my life, I have always been like that when it came to getting what I wanted, so moving forward, I’ll be less anxious or stressed about things and be more grateful of the time and effort I put into what I want.

Are your actions and thoughts aligned?