the article below is about "cheaters" in relationships but it pointed out something noteworthy:

https://theconversation.com/amp/want-to-know-if-your-partners-cheating-on-you-just-listen-to-their-voice-92387

"A popular theory with evolutionary psychologists, known as “cads versus dads”, suggests that more masculine, dominant men are not as paternal and generally invest less in their children and grandchildren than less masculine men. Yet research shows women generally prefer deeper voiced, more masculine-sounding men, especially when these women are near ovulation."

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12110-003-1008-y

so women basically prefer men who are more likely to cheat on them, this is just a fact based on research, no personal arbitration.

I'm not sure if it's true vice versa.