To young men, please read my request & story and learn from my mistake... don’t make loneliness reason to cohabiting with women - Marriage or otherwise..

desertedpotato71 · 2021-02-23T19:13:14+00:00

hey man i feel very sorry for what happened to you. at least you shared your story with us. I will take your advice and use it for my benefits (i'm 18) thank you very much, and i hope it gets better for you, stay strong my friend 💪🏼

shrickertt · 2021-02-23T20:16:23+00:00

i'm still a young lad too. i may not be from the same place as you but i will take your advice and use it wisely. where you may have experienced hardship and defeat, we will succeed and avoid. every day i tell myself that we can make it!

BL1NDEN3MY · 2021-02-23T20:01:45+00:00

It's okay man we're here for you. Talk on this subreddit and everyone will respond. If you're ever thinking of suicide don't. Don't do it because I said not to do it. Don't do it because of your family.

gopher_glitz · 2021-02-23T20:11:21+00:00

Some men marry because they think that if they don't she'll leave.

If you marry, she'll be gone too because she'll become someone else.

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-02-23T20:21:25+00:00

I can contest. No BJ's after marriage and sex takes a nose dive...

fried-green-banana · 2021-02-23T20:35:08+00:00

I love India and Indian people,but the rights of men are totally screwed and I feel for you,my friend. I wish I could help you and your family and I will through fighting for men's rights and I only hope collective human rights can protect you since men's right have little to no legatimaticy in 2021

quit_pmo · 2021-02-23T20:25:18+00:00

Im Indian and was aware of all this but actually seeing this happen to you breaks my heart. Keep fighting we all are with you. Ridiculous wat court system can do to men

hiddenwaitingtobefou · 2021-02-23T20:04:25+00:00

Shukriya from a paki American bhai. I needed to hear this.

SonofdeSun · 2021-02-23T20:29:12+00:00

Thank you for the advice brother. I hear you loud and clear and hey its okay. Alot of men have been where you were. Dont give up. Don't let her win by giving up. Win by living your life as if she never existed

retal1ator · 2021-02-23T20:37:32+00:00

Did you really give 500.000$ to his father for a house?

You're either ultra rich or you made some big mistakes there buddy... I am sorry to hear your story, but then again this is mostly a reminder of never making a woman the center of your existence and never marry, more than a warning against engaging with women in general.

I do believe a happy balance can be achieved by men, if they are smart enough to avoid all the common pitfalls, and brave enough to stick to not marrying and not giving women what they're not giving back in return immediately. I know this is a controversial opinion, however I believe younger guys would be better off enjoying women's company on their terms (and be healthy), than avoid women like the plague out of fear of becoming simps.

berite1day · 2021-02-23T20:44:40+00:00

The female lurkers always ignore stories like this one because there's no refuting OP's experience. This man's experience is why we're all at this point in our lives.

Keep fighting.

legend0102 · 2021-02-23T20:19:51+00:00

Sounds really rough man. Hang in there

Thvt-One · 2021-02-23T21:26:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice brother!

For loneliness for MGTOW men I just recommend buying a cat or dog to keep you occupied. Just got myself a Savannah cat to go on runs & hikes with

JimBimKim · 2021-02-23T22:04:29+00:00

Hey bro you got to keep on fighting everyday. If you die she will be so happy because she will see it as a success and that she was right about you in her eyes. She will lie to your son and tell him things about you that aren't true and you won't be around to defend yourself. You are worth so much more than all this because as a human you have a priceless intrinsic value that nobody can take away from you as long as you're alive.

Even if she takes "everything" from you, you can build yourself back up from nothing. The reality is that she can never take everything from you because in your life YOU are everything. She can never take you. It doesn't matter where on this earth you are, be it prison, be it pennyless it doesn't matter. You have won the battle because you have survived.

Your son will see the truth eventually. What she does cannot go unnoticed and he will know in the end. He will always have a bond with you because he is your flesh and blood and don't ever forget that. He is 50% you and nobody can take that out of him.

FIGHT ON BROTHER!!

victor_knight · 2021-02-24T01:29:12+00:00

Female empowerment is raging in India and this is one of the many side-effects (which scientists and the governments they work for know about but are okay with). Why? It helps slow population growth (endless growth being unsustainable). To quote the late and renowned scientist, Carl Sagan (taken from his last book, ‘Billions and Billions’, published in 1997) with reference to overpopulation:

"Our job is to bring about a worldwide demographic transition and flatten out that exponential curve—by eliminating grinding poverty, making safe and effective birth control methods widely available, and extending real political power (executive, legislative, judicial, military, and in institutions influencing public opinion) to women. If we fail to bring about a worldwide demographic transition... some other process, less under our control, will do it for us."

By the way, the overpopulation issue has now been rebranded as climate change, i.e. one of its major effects, since over 90% of the world's population is now not White and these (mainly) White scientists and governments don't want to be accused of racism or worse, genocide. Even abortion and financial support for it is now often referred to as "female reproductive health". These scientists and governments are very clever at marketing their ideas too. That's why female empowerment is sold to us as "gender equality" rather than the main reason behind it, i.e. population control. Why was the birth control pill invented decades ago? The main reason was not so that women can fuck around more. It was, yes, you guessed it, to lower the birth rate.

Khatam_kardunga1 · 2021-02-24T00:45:12+00:00

Pure eternal truth has been shared and written here. Story of every married person.

Sea-Mission-6316 · 2021-02-23T20:31:42+00:00

Keep fighting brother. Do not ever quit. Have been down a similar road as you during a divorce. It is hard to understand sometimes for those who have not lived it themselves. Stay strong. Hopefully, your son will understand some day and will seek you out. It is good that you are sharing so as to help other men avoid going through the same situation. May peace be with you.

potatorockstar · 2021-02-23T21:55:37+00:00

cant bring enough empathy and condolences for this tragic story brother. i hope you maintain your sanity and your son at the end of the day.

Khatam_kardunga1 · 2021-02-24T00:52:03+00:00

Crores of thanks for sharing your story with us.

IBudgetForIt · 2021-02-23T21:19:11+00:00

Yeah, finding effective and sustainable ways to combat loneliness is an important aspect of MGTOW.

Amadioha_Speaks · 2021-02-23T20:18:41+00:00

Do women have empathy?

treymills330 · 2021-02-24T04:51:10+00:00

Your story is saving so many others lives. You had to walk so that we could fly. Thank you.

Aflyinfox · 2021-02-24T03:35:34+00:00

My suggestion, you need to flee India. Head to the states and start over.

Roland-Deschain-Na · 2021-02-23T21:46:03+00:00

Be strong my friend and never give up! If you give up in any sense she Will win! Be strong and fight, for your family and your son!!!

joythegreat96 · 2021-02-24T03:00:19+00:00

People in west say, East/Asia/Muslim countries still have some quality women or have good traditional culture.... NOPE!! I also live in South Asia. Things are not sun shine here.

I almost married that Narcissistic piece of shit. Damn, this hits in my core. I wasted my five years and that shit recently choose hypergamy for her career growth. I am just waiting for right time to strike.

Right_Pepe · 2021-02-24T05:43:53+00:00

Sorry about your story pal. I wish you the best of luck in your life. Don't give up. Show that bitch you will not surrender to her whore ass!

ChachaNuru · 2021-02-24T02:52:47+00:00

Do you think she might be cheating with you? Did she had any premarital affairs?

I'm sorry for the loss and pain you've suffered and I don't mean to add more anxiety. I hope you recover from the trauma soon and have a happier life.

I'm Indian, 32, unmarried, well-settled, family already started looking for prospects but haven't hit anyone yet.

slver6 · 2021-02-24T02:34:59+00:00

You were a GIGA SIMP holy lord...

seems like you have money, but you keep playing by their rules but if you have money you should had played by your rules, I bet you can do better a lot better, think out of the fucking box

used2befast · 2021-02-24T02:20:50+00:00

I feel some of your pain brother. I just wrapped up a long, brutal and costly divorce where I effectively lost my kids and paid a shit load of money.

During the process, when many times I either thought about going rogue and taking the people out that were directly attacking me or eating a bullet, my best friend who is also a Marine and been through some brutal battles told me:

"If you're going through hell......keep on going!"

I remembered that quote he told me and focused on my self and my own sanity and well being and got through it.

It'll be ok

RedPilledWorld · 2021-02-24T00:29:27+00:00

Thank you for your advice. Stay strong brother.

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Physical-Pie748 · 2021-02-24T19:56:09+00:00

well, this sounds like an average story of a divorced men. the cycle is repeating itself over and over and over again. you cant win, the system is tilted against men.

i hope it gets better for you. try moving to another countries where you dont have to pay

dontscreef · 2021-02-24T07:24:19+00:00

same story here bro, i know how you feel. it's a universal story among many men nowadays. Stay strong and survive.

TheTastelessBatman · 2021-02-24T09:52:28+00:00

First of all, never apologise for your English. You know a second language and that's more than most of the world today. We are all men here and no one is going to judge you based on your proficiency in a language that is not your mother tongue.

You are a good man. Stay strong. This too shall pass but don't give that bitch a single dime.

SatyaNi · 2021-02-24T11:45:29+00:00

« Once you married, sex dies, then respect, then companionship and love »

You forgot : « then she hates you and try to destroy you in every possible ways, even using your children »

It’s the same story everywhere, yet, I thought India would be spared.

However...

DO NOT THINK OF KILLING YOURSELF.

The burden right now is too heavy for you to handle. That is all. One day, you’ll become stronger, or the burden will lighten.

If you commit suicide, she will say that you were weak, and that you were a burden for her. And every one will pity HER, and shame your grave by talking about how unstable and good for nothing you were.

May be you were beaten into weakness and submission by her. But as long as you live, you have not lost.

Fight, and win.

You still have a son. May be she has raised him to hates you, I don’t know. But he will be fucked up if she and her family are the only ones to raise him into adulthood.

May be some of your relatives are resenting you for putting them into this mess and marrying such an evil person.

Those who would think that way are trash. Live and fight for those who love and respect you. Live and fight for your son.

But most importantly, live and win for yourself.

You are free now. You are just paying the price for this freedom. Get help, online if need be. But live, fight and win your case.

Decide she no longer has power on your mind. Whatever she was is dead. Now, you are just facing a trash and her family are garbage too. Spit on them.

Don’t be sad. Don’t be disappointed. Don’t be ashamed of all the time, help and money you gave them.

Think of the time you have still to live yet and fight for it.

You’ll find true friendship and love once the shame, self hate and even hate of those garbages are gone.

Go with your rage now. It will help you fight this ordeal. Once you’ll be free, the rage will pass and you’ll live your freedom in peace and happiness.

Trust me as I have seen it. As I am also fighting for it.

You are not alone. Hundred of thousand around the world at least, I think.

Be part of those who will win their peace of mind and freedom.

Read those success in this sub and r/MGTOW, it will help you hold.

I send you love, brother.

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gaurash11 · 2021-02-24T09:04:51+00:00

Can you help us what was her perosnality so folks here who are about to get married will be careful about it. I think she is a physicopath. Any red flags that you observed before getting married but overlooked ?

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Granatenpapst · 2021-03-13T20:31:20+00:00

I congratulate, your opinion is useful

silencedmajority1 · 2021-02-23T21:38:32+00:00

Did you cheat?

Title	To young men, please read my request & story and learn from my mistake... don’t make loneliness reason to cohabiting with women - Marriage or otherwise..
Author	chakamaki
Upvotes	296
Comments	92
Date	February 23, 2021 6:58 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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