What's wrong with me

chalchium · 2019-10-29T09:46:09+00:00

Don't like the label of lonely or alone. You can be social and yet bachelor at the same time. If you want more interaction with people, put in efforts to achieve it. If you want a female mate, just listen to some good old marriage horror story or visit some good old redpill videos.

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-10-29T15:22:05+00:00

Things happen. Invest in other types of relationships.

TheSud007 · 2019-10-30T00:50:28+00:00

Find some friends^ don't need a girl to date but find a couple guys you can hang with

Tenth_10 · 2019-10-29T22:06:14+00:00

We all need buddies. We all need to talk with people, something more significant than "hello, goodbye". There's nothing stupid to slap here, just get yourself a mate and go have a beer.

daveg123123 · 2019-10-29T20:33:10+00:00

Dude, if you want someone in your life casual or committed do it. Don't let people make this decision for you. I suspect that a lot of people on here have been hurt badly by women and will convince you otherwise but at the end of the day there are good people out there and just be open but aware of the red flags.

Good luck

Bloodrain_souleater · 2019-10-29T19:05:21+00:00

Just watch the men in relationshits or the husbands who have been whipped into slavery by their spouses. You will be back to norm

bambambam10 · 2019-10-29T19:02:10+00:00

You're just building up some anxiety or whatever. Jerk off or visit a pro, then go home and watch some anime that make you tear up. Once you have PNC and let the tears flow out, you can seal the lid back up and feel leveled again. Sometimes you just need to eject whatever you're feeling out of your body, once you clear that up you'll be right as rain, good as new. Kinda like throwing up when you got a hang over type solution.

unblackmailable · 2019-10-29T17:31:02+00:00

Pursue something, anything new. Determine what you want and put a timing on it. e.g. the next year I want to learn a language or e.g. the next year I want to raise a dog or e.g. the next year I want to perfect my cooking .....

Good luck, and always remember that you're on the right track. Don't give up on everything you've worked for (maybe even suffered for) or sacrificed time for.

redditloginfail · 2019-10-29T16:45:52+00:00

If possible, find a way to regularly interact with old people. They appreciate it more than most. Also dogs, but they are a lot of maintenance and responsibility. If you're at work all day, I'd say no dog.

bunnytron · 2019-10-29T16:27:57+00:00

Hang out with friends more, but add variety in your friendships! From different hobbies and women.

JRL76182 · 2019-10-29T14:10:38+00:00

I have those fleeting thoughts of loneliness when I'm not busy at work (I'm pretty isolated at work, though I have a bird's eye view of the downtown square and all who visit it throughout the day). Those thoughts are indeed frustrating and confusing sometimes.

As has been said below, get a dog (or two). I have two (pit bulls), and once I pick them up after work from daycare, I don't waste a moment thinking about what I don't have in my life. I just enjoy what I do have, and I wouldn't trade it for anyone.

I remember my past relationships, and think about how unlikely it would be that a woman would "allow" me to have two pit bulls (and the commitment they require), a gym in my living room, and a music production workstation in my bedroom.

I think about the amount of time I spend enjoying those things now, and think about how unlikely it would be that a woman would "allow" me to spend very much time enjoying them.

I then think about what I would get in return for sacrificing those things I enjoy, and I don't see much of a benefit in doing that, to be honest. I certainly don't miss the few pleasant aspects of knowing a woman more than I enjoy spending my time and resources the way I currently do.

I think it's probably normal for guys like us to feel lonely from time to time. Those feelings of loneliness don't last long, and neither do most relationships these days.

Slap! :)

901735 · 2019-10-29T09:47:11+00:00

It'll pass.
What do you want?
Are you (non-professionally) socially active?

retardedwhiteknight · 2019-10-29T14:05:32+00:00

are you socially active? or do you have any passion that you enjoy doing really?

mgtowco · 2019-10-29T13:30:12+00:00

I find spending too much times on forums can make me feel lonely.

KING_CPB · 2019-10-29T13:05:36+00:00

Nothing. You made a right choice.

SkidNutz · 2019-10-29T12:35:30+00:00

Get a pet if you can. You'll always get more love back than you put in with quadrupeds.

I_waterboard_cats · 2019-10-29T12:35:25+00:00

Don't deal with it, fucking make friends or strengthen your relationships with existing, friends, neighbors, and family and join society and don't miss out on the little fucking things in life. Just because you don't want to be in a committed relationship doesn't mean you can't have platonic relationships with people.

And guess what you might get rejected or meet some assholes along the way, but don't let that discourage you or make you envious and needy

Brandwein · 2019-10-29T12:34:40+00:00

Talk/Play/Do shit with buddies or find some before you think you need a partner for that purpose. My lonileness is always completely gone after work or socialising for a while.

brassboy · 2019-10-29T12:25:34+00:00

Get a dog.

GlassCommunication · 2019-10-29T11:16:07+00:00

Nothing is wrong with you. Your system is pushing out errors as it should.

Find your reason for being and pursue that

MuhshiYahu · 2019-10-29T10:21:13+00:00

You're human. We craves connection. It's up to you how to deal with that.

All the best brotha.

SimplyKaz · 2019-11-05T12:13:11+00:00

As my mentor once said "Loneliness is a small price to pay"

Get some friends or a dog; you'll be much happier than picking up a chick.

Title	What's wrong with me
Author	yourmomhasebolaids
Upvotes	41
Comments	25
Date	October 29, 2019 9:31 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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