Usually wouldn't write about something like this but I witnessed it myself so I think I should share it.

I'll make it short in numbered points:

  1. "Son, we need some groceries" -> "No worries ma', I'll go to Euro's and Letta's stores"

  2. Drives Renault Clio Eco (3 liters per 100 km if you drive smart, a very smart purchase as a family car) to the two ample stores 6 kms from hour abode

  3. Parking, it is full today oh me gosh quite unusual for me to see so many cars

  4. Entering, as usual there is the illegal immigrant asking for change at the entrance, will spare 10 cents top for him later out of mercy

  5. Entered, perusing the merchandise and purchasing what is needed, something that is at an offered cut price (mostly vegetables) and some healthier snacks (olives in water\smart sized crunchy onions in brine)

  6. I hear someone female speaking in Spanish and understanding

6x) What is said is something like "Pero siempre te atraves hacer lo que no sirve sin me lo preguntar porque eres un carajo pendejo regresado"

  1. I turn around and see this overweight, tanned, ugly as sin latino-looking female goblin humbling his white skinned Italian husban that is as tall as me (188 cms), him with his back curved forward and muffling something like "Si carino tienes razon siempre"

  2. I just look at the scene, the guy notices me and I cristally clear in a moderate tone "Simp", wait for him to see if he get it, maybe he get it because he is left puzzled a little, but still the woman is pulling the reins so he keeps staying behind her, his back curved forward.

The Aesop Is: do not deprive yourself of your own dignity because you want to stay close to someone toxic out of someone else's pressure or your own insecurity.