Everywhere I go people make excuses about not being able to make friends, connect with people, or be social. People in this town aren't friendly. Everyone has their friend circle already. I'm too old. I can't find anything I like. I can't stand most people. People aren't dependable. It's too far away. It's too expensive. Doesn't fit into my schedule.

However, if you are a man operating at your peak in terms of frame, game, and looks then there is no excuse that works for you.

If you've been working your MAP long enough, let's review some facts about yourself:

You are attractive.

You plan well.

You are dependable.

You know about and do interesting things.

You understand value and how to bring it to situations and people.

People have fun when you're around.

At some point you have to realize that YOU ARE NOW THE LEADER. Not just in your home, but in the world. If you truly are an alpha male that's been interacting outside your home in any capacity, then there are people out there right now who want to follow you besides your wife. You know who they are. They understand that following a person like you will lead to something good.

You may have swallowed the pill as a frightened nerd, but realize you now have the power to conjure what you want like a genie. Stop limiting yourself to events and activities run by other people. YOU start the club. YOU organize the activities. Research it, pick it, plan it, schedule it, sell it, and execute. People will come. They'll come to the place you choose and on your schedule and that's good because you're busy.

And if they don't come you already know the answer to that too: it doesn't matter. You do things because you find them worthwhile. You'll still enjoy doing it by yourself. People will eventually join you...it just might not be who you originally invited. Sound familiar?