It's been a long time since I lurked and posted here and I really dont have my pulse on the state of the community
Still, today I employed an important LTR tactic that is soooooooo misogynistic yet critical if you intend on staying in a somewhat satisfying relationship with any woman.
The Wife bitching about this and that for about 12 hours and at first I ignored but once it gets started it needs to be quickly dealt with unless you enjoy walking on eggshells and scrambling to please her highness in futile hopes of making her happy.
The thing is, most women use complaining and expressed dissatisfaction as tool of manipulation. Society runs like worried butlers to fix their problems when they bark so its a go-to strategy for women.
What I do, and this seems to be required on a 2 to 3 x per year basis is just tell her to knockoff the bullshit because its nothing I'm going to live with. She knows what I mean, I'll leave.
You have to do it the first time. Just walk out for 3 hours and come back and dont discuss it. If that doesn't work, try an overnight or 2. If you are worth a shit, she will get it and likely will be sweet as pie for a month and will howl with delight when fucking because she isnt with a lapdog. She has an actual man who wont put up with bullshit.
TLDR...dont discuss the fact that she is being a bitch. Just shut it down with a stern warning and follow up til she gets it. It's the height of betatude to get into the nuts and bolts of why she is making everyone miserable. In fact, its a reward for her if you do converse about the source of it all and you can expect it nightly forever more.
That doesn't mean not talking things over that are brought to you calmly with respect. It means break the habit of her using unhappy wife, YOUR unhappy life to get what she wants
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