I am sick of these faggot posts on here. Lets build some fucking men who fucking know how to fuck.

You wanna build a slut or two? Lets do that.

Part 1 is going to be about, yep you guessed it: Anal.

So look at you, you fuck your woman. Great. You wanna think you are a D/s with her. Who fucking cares. You want to fuck her shit hole? Great. Here are the steps. LPT: This works better if she wants to actually get fucked in the ass. You have to typically not be a faggot for this to be the case, so go sidebar and be at 1xBW on all big three at least first.

Anal is all about the prep work. Shit comes out of your ass naturally. It doesn’t go in naturally, therefore learning to control the anal sphincter is the whole reason we have to TRAIN this muscle.

Step 1 is you have to mentally commit to a 90-120 plan of anal training her AND you. Anal is all about relaxing the muscles and getting use to the feeling. This takes time and effort.

Tools you need are an anal training kit, quality water based lube and an enema ball.

You need to get her use to the external stimulation first.

The process goes like this: (I am going to assume you are ok with eating ass.) If you are not, you might as well stop reading here. You need to first get her comfortable to external stimulation. This includes your tongue and a very wet finger. You need to start doing this every single time you have sex, but under no circumstances do you enter yet. After you have trained the initial reaction of touch away from the area, you are free to start going for insertions. There are two positions I would recommend. Her on her back with her legs up with her hips on the edge of the bed and doggy. Make sure her ass is high and head low.

I prefer the back to start. You will be able to see her face, gauge her level of fun and it honestly makes her feel a little less like a whore in that position as well. As you move into insertion training it is important for either you, or her to provide clitoral stimulation via a wand during this process. It keeps her mind off it and helps her relax. It also builds an Oxytocin connection between pleasure and anal, which will benefit you later.

Keeping your nails clean and maintained is critical if you are going to do this. You also need to be prepared to see shit on your finger, and possibly smells as well. This will be fixed later on, as you progress up the ladder to the point of using an enema ball before butt play. The anal trainer kit I linked has one plug that slides over your finger. This will make it feel nice and smooth inside her vs you finger.

Lots of lube, and go in slow. DO NOT fuck her ass. The point right now is to just put it in, and hold it. This is going to start training her anal sphincter to not want to clamp down when this happens, which will allow you to move onto more fingers, etc. This process should be done for 3-5 weeks, as often as possible. DO NOT get ahead of yourself and try a bigger plug or your dick. YOU HAVE to invest the time to properly train her sphincter to be able to relax, and allow her brain to build that muscle/brain connection so she can relax it herself.

If you are interested in butt play for yourself (you should be) now is the time to start experimenting yourself. Do it to yourself and get used to the sensations. What you feel is basically what sees feels. Being able to empathize and coach her thru the feelings goes along way. Once she is taking that finger like a boss, I move to an actual butt plug. I do not go for multiple fingers yet. The reason plugs are a thing is cause they go in there and sit. Their job is to train the sphincter.

At this point I would move onto putting a plug in her and then fucking her vagina. Let her feel the DP sensation, and be prepared to have your mind blown as well. Do this for another 2-3 weeks. At this point she should easily be able to take a finger and a small plug in her with no issues and leave it in there for 10-20 minutes at least. Again, make sure lots of lube!

The next phase is to move her to the medium plug. This is where I start to consider using the enema ball to get clean first, as this plug is going to be longer and thicker. You will have to gauge her interest in that. Make sure you use warm water, and again I would highly recommend doing it to yourself first so you understand the process. LPT: As it is inside you and your squeezing the ball to get the water inside you, DO NOT let go of the ball until you take it out. If you do the vacuum in the ball will suck everything out of your ass into the ball and it will be nasty and hurt. Keep the ball compressed until you pull it out.

Before you move onto the final plug and/or your dick you need to get the enema part figured out. Getting your shit pushed up hurts, and it will kill all your progress.

NOTE: NO WHERE in any of this have I said "fuck her ass" All you are doing is putting something in there and it stays. We are still training, she is not ready for in/out penetration yet.

Once you have gotten to the enema part, and the large plug and we are good there, you can fuck her with it in there, and she can have it inside for 15-20 minutes you are free to go back to fingers and go for two.

Now is your chance to ever so slightly "fuck her" ass with your fingers. SLOWLY! there should be 1-2cm of movement TOPS. That is about 1/2 the length of your finger between your knuckles. LOTS OF LUBE!

By this point, you should be 90-120 days in the process of training her.

When you believe she is at her sexual peak of the month, I would go ahead and plan to try for penis insertion at this point. You will need to warm her up down there. Start with a finger, to a plug, fuck her with the plug. You will be able to gauge if her ass is "in the mood" or not. There are nights when my girls ass is DTF, and nights where it is not. YOU HAVE to have the self control to not fuck and ass that isnt in the mood to be fucked.

Your goal for your first insertion should be to just simply get it all the way in and hold it. SHE IS NOT ready to be fucked in the ass yet. Slide it all the way in and let it rest in there. Allow the sphincter time to learn the size and sensation of it.

By this point, if you have both mentally and physically prepared her for this, my girl actually with orgasm when I slide it in her ass.

Do not ever make it about fucking her ass. You are fucking her. So have your fun for a min or two, pull out, use a baby wipe to clean yourself off to be safe then go back to fucking her and finish anywhere but her ass. This is important for the first few sessions. We are mentally training her to be a slut, not a whore and there is a difference.

Hygiene is important. Clean yourself. Never go straight from anal to vagina or oral, even though they do it in porn. A2M and A2V is not good.

Once you have anal trained her, you should have a girl who actually loves to get fucked in the ass, which is honestly rare. The vast majority of women who do anal do it but don't like it.

All of these steps can be applied to you as well. Like I have said before, anal on a man feels great (no homo)

And if you really want your mind fucked, put a small plug in your ass, while you fuck her in hers its awesome.

Additional Notes:

Wearing plugs in public is hella fun. Make sure to take a pocket sized bottle of lube with you. Keep it in her purse. You will need to lube every now and again as the outside will dry out from time to time, especially if dancing - not that I would know.

Plugs can easily be worn for multiple hours (personal max is 5) however, do not forget to re-hydrate down there every 45 mins or so.

Combine plugs with remote controlled vibrators. Egg for her, cock ring for you.

If you are going to wear them out - keep the size pretty small. You do not want a 3/4" butt plug up your ass all night, but the #1 size will be a nice fun treat - esp. if doing something active like dancing.

Too large of plug can impact erections. So again, keep the size small. It isn't about gaping her/your ass, but adding pressure to either your prostate and/or her g-spot. Yes - you can hit her g-spot via anal.

Public Anal. Do it. Just do it. Pull her skirt up and fuck her ass in public somewhere. Swinger bar, I don’t care. Rest stop, wherever.

Anal vibrators are a thing for a reason. Try them.

Never use glass and/or crystal type plugs. Always use flexible ones, only porn stars who are not doing it for pleasure use gem plugs. Only use flexible, silicone type plugs with a taper handle so it conforms to your ass cheeks. This is nice for walking around/public use.

Never stick anything in an asshole that isnt attached to your body, or with a handle. It will get sucked up and lost and you will be going to the ER to have it fished out otherwise.

Have fun, and that's all for now.