In the spirit of some of the recent posts regarding getting sex outside of marriage, I wanted to clarify something for the blue pill morons who think they are red.

If you choose to have sex with someone other than your agreed upon contractual sex partner, understand what you are doing, and why.

Do you need to get your dick wet, because it hasn't seen the inside of a vagina for a decade? - You are not ready

Do you want variety but are getting consistent good sex in your life? - Create your slut

Are you just done with her , but are staying for what ever reason you choose to hamster out? - Well, see if you want to call it cheating

cheat verb gerund or present participle: cheating

  1. act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially in a game or examination. "she always cheats at cards" deceive or trick. "he had cheated her out of everything she had" synonyms: swindle, defraud, deceive, trick, scam, dupe, hoodwink, double-cross, gull; More
  1. avoid (something undesirable) by luck or skill. "she cheated death in a spectacular crash" synonyms: avoid, escape, evade, elude; More archaic help (time) pass. "the tuneless rhyme with which the warder cheats the time"

Don't be dishonest with yourself. Do not run away from what you are doing. This will make you feel bad. And feeling bad, guilt, will fuck you up.

Until you are ready to not feel bad about having sex outside of your marriage, no matter how "cheated" your wife's inability to get wet for you makes you feel, you are not ready