The woman "ForAdulturyOnly" posted a new thread on /r/DeadBedrooms and was asked what her husband could have done differently. I thought her responses captured many MRP tenets worth of a post to help those wavering on swallowing the pill.

Firstly, I think that I would be more attracted to him if he had a life other than work and home. I think he's too familiar to me. He doesn't have friends, he doesn't have hobbies. It's easy to forget that he's an interesting and intelligent person when the only time I really see him is when he's being a dad.

Often preached here: get out of the house, make friends and start new hobbies. Focus on YOU becoming great.

Secondly, I'd like to not feel like he's another one of my kids, someone who I have to take care of. This was partially my fault - I kind of "took over" the responsibilities, and he let me.

Be the leader of your family. Take back the finances, take care of fixing up your house and yourself. Be the man who LEADS your family.

Another thing, and this is the part that he probably should be responsible for is that sex with him has become boring.

The all important V in the Sex God Method DEVI... Variety! She also talks about needing an emotional connection in their sex-life, so there is your E as well.

He could text me sexy messages, ask me for dirty pics at work, take me out and show me off, make me feel desired and wanted.

This was a good reminder to always be building anticipation by flirting and gaming her.

Here is the full thread - https://archive.is/xmaT1

I know it is girl talk about feelz, but there are some good nuggets in there to remind us of our path.

EDIT - changed the link to an archive link, per request.