Okay, Mods, I know the thread was locked, but I’d like to offer my analysis of the “my crazy wife cheated on me cuz she’s a psychopath and look youtube video” story - (This video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlqoC3SKIxA&t=3349s ) For my own benefit, learning, and internalization as a RP man, to see if I see what he could not.
Why? I watched about half of it, and really feels like, for the first time, I have physiological manifestations of the Red Pill. In other words: I see with different eyes than cheated on guy.
Here are a few examples of the reactions I had to the video.
“No agency, No responsibility” - Well, duh. Of course not. Oldest teenager in the house, AWALT.
“Double standard. If I cheated, I’m terrible, but if she cheated, no big deal” - Well duh. Hampster. Feminine Imperative. Female support groups.
“It was all planned in advance”
Really? She planned to set herself up with a fake marragie that won’t hold up in court, planned to leave before common law set in, and planned to admit her prostitution to him? I doubt it.
Then there is the whining. Oh my goodness the whining.
My conclusion: Dude is in good physical shape but pretty blue pill at heart. Runs a pick up artist university, picks up a girl that seems to have low self-esteem (multiple boob jobs) and she turns out to be a sex addict with low self-esteem that uses her body for attention/money. Yeah, she probably did love bomb and mirror and use some dark triad stuff. Then again, dude is running a PUA university. So he finds someone who uses some similar techniques.
Shocking.
You don’t need an hour on psychopathy to explain this when hampster, hypergamy, leading (EDIT Add: You are ALWAYS leading. When you are blue pill loser, you are leading to the destruction of the relationship.) blue pill destroys respect, and maybe a little narcissism will do.
Meta:
Dude. Do you even sidebar?
Bonus Update:
I didn't even watch the whole video the first time. There's more.
1:36:35 - "This has actually stregenthed my positions in terms of marragie and monogamy ... I know exactly what I felt, and it was real ... and it is improbable and implausible that I can't get back what I dished out in return"
one more time: Do you even sidebar? She can't love you like you can love her. She won't love you like you want her to love you. Come. On. Man.
1:39 or so - He spent ALL his time with her. ALL of it. Saw her all the time every day. Apparently gave up all habits outside the house; they spent ALL their time together except when she was shopping or cheating on him.
So familiarity bred contempt. SHOCKING.
(Also, the story is a little inconsistent. She spent a lot of money on him, paid for vacations, etc. Yet they worked together at the same company -- where did he think she got the money for this? It's confusing.)
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