Divorce (or the divorce process) is, based off my personal experience - the last phase of a man fully becoming Red Pill.

All of the reading, training and all we talk about here, it all comes into focus during the divorce process. AWALT is 100% real, and the hunt for new pussy allows you to see everything from the start through the Red Pill lens.

Months into the process, I now live two very distinct lives.

Life #1 is the life I am untangling with my wife. It has gotten to the points of daily threats from her. She has withheld prescription medications from our children in an attempt to hurt ME. Hacked my cell phone account (embarrassing considering I am an IT guy) and had my phone shut off. Stalked me on social media to the point I had to block her and all her friends and family, and even tried to remove me from our family car insurance plan - a policy I pay directly. I have her on video coming up to the marital home, looking in the windows, etc. to see what is going on.

The amount of fucks I give in Life #1 is in the negative at this point. My lawyer is costing me a ton of money, but my "cost to fuck" is going down. She is up to six different infractions of standing orders. Her payout goes down, each and every day as she sinks her own ship. When someone is so focused on drilling holes in your ship, when they finally get kicked out of yours, and they are in their own - they do not know better and keep drilling holes.

Life #2 is the other life I live. In this life I have completed my second Big IT certification. I am now double certified in my field. This is huge for my career, and I have been wanting to do it for some time, but my energy was focused on trying to save my marriage and tame my wife. Now, I use that energy on myself Also in this life I continue to kick ass with my kids as their primary custodial parent. No need to say anything further, other than the amount of energy I now have to focus on myself, kids and career is at least 30% more now that I am no longer dealing with the Mrs. and her daily drama. And I thought I was doing pretty good before. You will never know the full extent of being gaslit, until that person leaves and tries to do it from afar.

This life also contains an endless supply of Bumble pussy. I have it down to a science at this point. In the last few months alone I am somewhere between 12-16 different women I have dated and fucked. I don't even bother to count anymore. I was at three plates pretty consistently, but I only spin two plates now. I broke the 28yo smoke show a few weeks ago when she dropped the marriage/kids conversation after only 3 weeks of fucking. Personally, I like the 32-37 year old women at this point. Little more mature, and I am OK with that. To many 25-30 year old's just want to day drink on the weekends and week nights. Whatever, not my style. There is no one at this point in their life with no baggage, and I am fine with that. I don't give a shit about their baggage, and manage my own.

In this life, I now have a complete and full understanding of the word NO. I have had women that I have rejected go absolutely ape shit on me.

"What kind of man tells me NO!?"

"Men do not tell me NO!"

I had a woman who is fairly close to my men's social circle overtly ask me to hook up. Nice gal, but I point blank told her I "do not shit where I eat" in so many words. The hamster is strong on this one. She still texts me every 3-4 days asking me to reconsider, and go out for drinks. She even said the fact I told her NO, makes her want to fuck me even more. Unbelievable? Nope, it is not.

The point of my post is somewhat obscure. I will argue that I am somewhere between still being in the MRP group, but trending towards MGTOW but without the Incel part of it. Its why I do not post on the main TRP sub, and I do not read MGTOW, but I understand the concept.

The reason I make this post, is because I now look at the askMRP and MRP threads with a different lens. The last few weeks have had some posts related to the infamous GNO epidemic, a few threads here and there about women wanting to be unicorns, shit tests, a fucking post about a wedding ring and some dumb motherfucker who doesn't know how Finasteride works.

All of these posts disgust me now, because they are all about the WOMAN. Who fucking cares? There is an endless supply of pussy out there, and like I was at one time these men are still trying to save a woman from being a woman, or a marriage from failing. Walking away from my marriage, has set me free. I was dodging bullets and no doubt taking one or two in the arm before, but now I can see the code and I stop them dead.

These men, and parts of this sub need to go back, focus on the Dread levels and boost up your Abundance Mentality. Go and download Bumble. Put a pic on there of you in a nice suit and see what you can get. I am not telling you to close, but I am telling you that after making the SAME fucking mistake these men are, for 10-12 months - you are wasting your life.

You will not give a flying fuck if your wife goes and whores it up on GNO. She is replaceable.

You will not care if she wants to be a unicorn. She is replaceable.

You will not care about a ring. That ring means shit to her, me, her friends and any other Chad out there.

You motherfuckers need to sidebar the fuck up. Get your heads out of your asses, get into the gym and stop letting a woman who is 100% replaceable run your lives.

Since my wife left, I have fully replaced everything she did, either with maids, dry cleaners, or 28-35yo smoke shows who will do ass to mouth on the 2nd date.

Since she left, she still gets a lousy amount of money from me, drives a car I gave her, lives with some old empty nesters, continues to look for a job, and sees her kids 4 days out of every 14. I am the prize, and if she didn't know then, she sure as fuck knows now.

I am going to state, for the record that the single most important attribute a man needs in his life is ABUNDANCE. You need it in everything. In women, career, money, all of it. If you have any single points of failure, you need to fix them right now.

If it is Monday, and you cannot fuck another woman than the one you are currently fucking by Saturday night - you fucking suck.

If in your career, you cannot go from fired to hired in 90 days or less - you fucking suck.

If you cannot walk into the gym tomorrow and lift your body weight on the big three - you fucking suck.

If you lay awake at night, butthurt over something she did, or that you didn't get your balls drained how you wanted - you fucking suck.

If your kids treat you like shit, are little disobedient fucks, are on ADHD meds because you cant fucking parent or because the need an ass whopping - you fucking suck.

If you ask your woman where to go for dinner, if she drives the family car when y'all go out, if you have not been on a family vacation in the past 12 months, or if you have not even been out of your own state in the past 6 - you fucking suck.

What is the point of living if you let another person run your life? What is the point of living if you walk in fear of what she will do? Why would you let someone, who is replaceable fully in less than 90 days, even take up that much space in your brain?

You need to act. You need to take control of your life, and you need not wait 10-12 months like me to do it. That is 10-12 months of MY life and my kids life I will never get back.

Pissed? Yeah - I am pissed at the man I used to be.

You faggots need to learn the power of the word NO. You need to understand the power of NOT GIVING A FUCK. The minute you really, truly understand this single item - it makes everything 75% easier.

You cannot and never will truly, not give a fuck when you lack abundance.

Are you going to learn from my mistakes, or at least put an end to making your own?

Or are you going to continue to fucking suck?