I work the full sexual spectrum. This is known, and no need to discuss this. What we are here to talk about is something that is new to me, and that is role based sexual play. Yes it sounds cheesy, yes I was hesitant but it was actually tons of fun and very, very hot.

There have been several women over my time as a single man who have dropped hints about "rape play" or "forced sex." We are not talking about basic shit, but full on fighting back. Fitchick mentioned this several weeks ago. So I decided to do some research and figure it out. She had the basic layout of the fantasy, even if it is very cliché - I just needed to make it happen.

The scenario was simple: Single Mom who cant pay her rent. I was the land lord and I was going to take her rent money via sex. Forcefully if necessary.

Background: We agreed that traditional safe words would not be used. She had an overt desire to want to say the following phrases:

"No", "you are hurting me," "I do not want to" and "stop."

Obviously, for any sane person - these phrases are immediate stoppages. However, pushing through these we needed to establish unique safe words, even outside of our "green, yellow and red" safe words for our standard D/s play.

After a while, she wanted to "submit" to the sexual advances. Some of the things she wanted was for me to say things like "I will be collecting rent from you this way moving forward, this is not going to be the last time I force you to have sex with me," in addition to standard stuff like calling her my slut, etc. This all sounded fun and erotic to me.

Beyond the establishment of new and unique safe words, the other paramount rule was absolutely no closed fist hitting, clawing, kicking, or slapping harder than we have both previously done in our D/s play. We have each slapped each other across the face, and we understand those limits. For this particular episode we also agreed to keep our hands off each others necks to ensure safety there, even though we choke each other often, I did not want to introduce this. I also kept anal off the table. At this point she was not fully anal trained, and I was not interested in "anally raping" her and/or hurting her. Even though she wanted it, I told her this could be time 2 or 3.

Once we had the ground rules laid out it was up to me to execute. I decided to prep the play room with cuffs, ropes and leg spreader. I also got out the silk blindfold (I do not like ball gags) and prepared all that. Had it ready to go.

Once the room was ready we went over the plan one last time, and the scenario began. I put her out in the garage for her to simulate knocking on my front door. I opened it, and she came in and we sat at my kitchen table.

The scenario began to play out, and after about 15 seconds the role playing became very natural. We each went into our roles very easily and it became very organic. I started to execute my part (like any traditional casting couch porn) and eventually getting to the point of forcibly picking her up and taking her to the play room.

I am a big, strong guy and Fitchick is no push over herself. This was when it really started to get interesting. She was fighting back, and fighting back with intention. I had to actually exert some strength to get her into the room. Fighting, wiggling to get away and screaming she was playing her part beautifully and it was very sexual to use real strength.

After I had her in the play room, I threw her onto the bed and to my surprise, she got up and tried to escape. She was 100% invested. So I threw her back down, and this time tied her to the bed via the cuffs and ropes I had laid out. However, my "normal" knot was insufficient and again, she broke free. Laughing at me and actually breaking role for a moment to make fun of me and my shitty knot skills.

Well, she should have kept her mouth shut because at this point I gagged her, and really took the time to tie her up and make sure was secured to the bed.

I am not going to go into details on the sex, because it was awesome. As discussed about half way into it, she started to "pretend" she wanted to fuck me for the rent debt.

At one point during sex she went to kiss me - I had not kissed her to this point. I pushed her face away and said "Sluts do not get kisses". I believe she came about 15 seconds later.

The session ended with me untying her, and pushing her out of the house into the garage butt naked and telling her to walk back to her apartment like a good little whore.

10 seconds later I let her back in, roles were dropped and aftercare began.

Tools used:

Cuffs and Ropes

Leg Spreader

Blindfold

Lube (not used)

Lessons and thoughts

I have had lots of rough sex over the years, but never had someone resist and work to fight back. It was pretty hot. Hearing the phrases "no, etc" was also very fun - understanding they are show stoppers normally however in the scenario were fun. It was a mind trip.

I believe that she really enjoyed being forcefully taken, then allowing herself to submit. There is likely some inner slut shit going on here that I need someone like /u/rstonept to verbalize, but seeing it was hot.

None of this is possible without a high level of trust and sexual openness with your partner.

This was all 100% consensual.

Do not, ever, ever forget about aftercare and that cuddles are required