TL;DR

Wife gets sassy and disrespects everyone in the house. Husband corrects her Attitude. She comes to apologize to each person individually on her own.

There was nothing particularly hard about this weekend. We were busy but I had everything planned we just needed to stick to it. We mostly did and Saturday ended up being a great day. Took our son to a birthday party, came home and had some pretty awesome sex, picked him up and went to a grill out. At the party there were some decent looking women HB5-6's that were single and kept coming up with excuses to talk to me and my wife. She hung onto my side the entire time and deployed several mate guarding tactics. We had a great time, and we all came home and went straight to sleep. Wife notices my SMV is improved and being approached by these women do have the desired affect of making her more attracted to me.

Sunday was home brewing day. We had a pretty good start to the morning and at about 9am I went and did my thing in the garage. She kept coming out and asking me about silly things here or there. Answered all of them. We came in to plan my sons up coming birthday party. Que the stressful shit tests. She gets on this thing where she says 15,000,000 words and if I dont remember three of them then she keeps saying "I just said that, why did you just ask me this" and etc... over and over again. That's how she always has been. Eventually I give up the A&A and just tell her with AM that we are about to be done planning this together. Then broken record we are about to be done. She seemingly calms down and continues with the planning. This will be an expensive birthday party and a lot of things have to go right.

Eventually we are done and her and my son go to his new laptop to plan a birthday cake. She has never used windows 8 before. She keeps getting shitty with him and me. I am brewing beer and have to keep stopping what I am doing to help her figure out how to go back another screen. To be fair, I dont use Windows 8 all that much myself. Finally she snaps and storms up the stairs meanwhile saying "This laptop is shit, I am so glad you didnt get me one of them too". My son has this look on his face that his laptop was junk and his dad didnt get him something nice, because he loves that thing since the day I got it for him. Basically he begged forever to get one, and I got him one as an early birthday present. He has treated it as a golden gift from daddy.

Immediately I go right up stairs. I must have this evil look in my eye because I bend down to her eye level at the computer desk, lock eyes, and noticed she has a fearful look on her face. I tell her very strongly "Is your end goal to make our son think that we gave him his favorite gift as junk". Then I walk down stairs. My son is telling me his computer isnt junk and its the best thing he has ever gotten. He loves it. I also think my wife heard him say that from upstairs. I get on there and fix his browser problem and he happily goes back to searching for a cake. The laptop is not junk, its a dell e7450 touchscreen. Maybe this is breaking my frame, maybe not. I would like to think an edge of my frame slipped into hers a little bit. Either way, I corrected it and used my assertiveness to let her know that behavior is not acceptable. Didn't even have to scream or get shitty or even act butthurt. Pay attention to how this pays off later in the FR.

I am back out in the garage doing my brewing and about 30 minutes later she comes out and apologizes to me, very sincerely. She also tells me she already apologized to our son. Deploy AM and swat her on the ass and send her back in the house. You see I did break frame slightly but also needed to "protect" my offspring. Even so, I drug her back into my frame kicking and screaming. Then when she thought she could actually surprise her "oak tree" she finds out that its not the case. Still the same rock as before. She comes back out an hour later and is all over me sexually. Ended up pushing her to her knees. She does everything and zips me back up. Pat her on the head and say good girl. She hangs out with me for the rest of the afternoon helping me. She gets rewarded with time and attention when she is sexual, and its gobbed on more as she gets more submissive about it. Plus since I was an oak/rock she accepted my leadership and helped me with all my brewing so I could get done sooner. Especially submissive since she has hated my home brewing with a passion for years now and for her to do anything but bitch about me leaving a teaspoon out "after i was supposedly done cleaning" was a huge step for her.

The point of the garage incident is that it might have been a comfort test. Probably not. She fucked up and she knows that. Her hamster was doing wheelies at the speed of light after I did that to her. She really came down to see if I had gotten upset or angry. When she realized that I didnt, it cue'd her hamster to slow down a little bit and maybe all this planning is not so tough after all.

Que later in the day and she wants us all to go out to eat for Mexican because "Dad has been working hard all day and I dont want him to have to cook on the grill". Awesome dinner, had a family walk where she held my hand the entire time. Watched some TV and then we all went to bed. Wife kept giving me ques that she wanted me to initiate and I AM'ed those as well and took her to bed. Woke up this morning and she came to cuddle with her head on my chest. She rarely ever does that, I don't know why, but I think to her its very submissive.

Edit: Formatting and expanded some concepts.