Welcome back to another episode of what kind of shit can old Scurve ( those who know me from back then ) stir up.

Nah. You wouldn’t believe me if I told you I had a good college educated girl want to get tied up and fucked with a knife.

Now. No one was injured. Relax.

This isn’t about sex.

Not directly.

It’s not about your wife. Or your job. Or your kids. Or that single mom you’re trying to fuck on the side. It’s not about creating drama. Not directly.

It’s about power dynamics in any relationship. Love. Work. Anything in between.

There is only one secret to this whole thing.

Not giving a fuck and being willing to walk away. From anything.

Fuck you. I said willing. I didn’t tell you to divorce her. That’s your choice.

Here’s the deal. One of the reasons we tell you to go lift is to give you confidence about doing hard things.

The reason we say to get money to walk away from your shitty job is to make it logistically easier to do so.

But nothing can help you if you’re not willing to say “ fuck it “ and walk away when you’re not happy with the company you keep.

If you’re not willing to burn that shit down - it’s all for nothing and you’ll still be in your dead bedroom.

If you can’t tell your scared inner boy “ fuck you, talk to women” - I don’t care how jacked you are.

I’ve seen too many jacked guys who are in the 1k club, 9% bf be scared to talk to girls to still believe that’s all it takes.

Build your inner game. Be willing to take a risk. Be willing to open a girl up with “ nice shoes , wanna Fuck?” Jus for laughs. ( this works waay more often than it has any right to).

So do the work that makes you able to say “fuck it “ and walk away.

Thank me later.

Fuck you.