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HornsOfApathy's MRP Cheat Codes to blow up your sex life

September 30, 2021

Retards! Gather 'round! Here comes dynamite.

/u/Blarg_Risen recently made a comment to say the following:

I see a lot of OYSs 10 and under. I see a few less OYSs 10-20. And even less above that. And one thing that I'm really noticing for the newer crowd is them getting lost in the amount of information and stratification of guys here. As J10 mentioned long ago, there really is different levels to this whole game. And getting lost in the nuances of the upper levels, in my opinion, is holding guys back from doing what they need to do: faking it, fucking up, and especially introspecting on where they are and where they want to go.

There's no doubt the testosterone level has dropped in here with respect to new guys. I haven't seen a guy come in and blaze a trail to success since Horns. And that's not necessarily a dig at newer guys. It's the result of us guys at the top reigning in that unstructured chaos, and you guys at the bottom falling in lockstep rather than blazing your own trail.

I think Blarg is right, and since I'm one of those vets trying to help guys reign in that unstructured chaos, I think it's time we give some dynamite in polarity. The first step was putting a rule 9 moratorium in place. Next step? Let's take it back to rule zero. Fuck leadership, fuck self-improvement, fuck not jacking off, fuck validation, fuck all of it. Let's get back to being a man who does shit, fail or succeeds, but learns how to become a man who fucks and trades notes about it.

The point of all this is to STOP thinking and START doing shit and testing yourself.

I have an incredible sexual imagination that I give to my woman as a gift. From the years I've been here I am convinced that most retards here have dull and boring sexual imaginations. So I'm here to share my notes with you dudes.

All of the following Cheat CodesTM have been personally tested by me over the last 4 years, and everyone of them has been a successful and great sexual encounter. So line up, pick a #, and go do some shit. You'll maybe fail, maybe not, but who the fuck cares? The worst that's going to happen is your dick is dry and you fail a shit test. Just like before. Oh, and shit tests? They will happen. Deal with it however you want.

Horn's List of Successful Sexual Cheat Codes:

I've chosen to model all of these under the structure of DEVI, which in the sidebar is covered by Sex God Method. Even better, I've put all of this into a spreadsheet for those of you with a spot of 'tism even rated by difficulty. I've made it easy for you.

I want to be clear about one thing though - you MUST give each attempt your full undivided 100% effort. Otherwise, it will not work. Go read a field report here from a dude who actually tried something that I wrote about.... and it worked.

I would like to finally add that you'll read below a lot of words being exchanged between you and your woman. They aren't necessary, but rather I have included them here so that you can imagine the frame of mind required to make them successful. In other words, you can do all of this without communicating a single word at all.


DEVI Concept Frame Required Number Item
Dominance Beginner 1 "Keep that up and maybe I'll let you XYZ me tonight, you've been a good girl lately." (give me a backrub, suck on my cock, cuddle me) - it's all about giving the prize out.
Dominance Beginner 2 Pick her up, carry her upstairs, throw her on the bed, rip her clothes off, and fuck her. Without saying anything.
Dominance Beginner 3 "I want to see those nice little/big/milky/perky (something with praise) tits of yours. Now."
Dominance Grinding 4 "This pussy belongs to me now." Said in the throws of you in a dominant fucking position.
Dominance Grinding 5 Tear her shirt off down the middle exposing her breasts and caveman her.
Dominance Grinding 6 Try #5 during a "fight" where you generally DNGAF and she's emotional. Fuck the bitch out of her. Get dramatically angry over the top.
Dominance Grinding 7 Hang her head over the bed (face up) and face fuck her
Dominance Hard 8 Give her safewords, blindfold her, then tie her up. Leave the room. Come back as a different person who's kidnapped her and is going to molest her. Or tie her up in the shed at knifepoint like /u/red-sfpplus does and watch her piss herself.


You will notice that emotion begins around the intermediate level of experience and frame. This is intentional, as there is rarely any emotion involved without you first understanding Dominance and implementing it.

DEVI Concept Frame Required Number Item
Emotion Grinding 9 As she's getting tired, be the big spoon and rub her asshole as she falls asleep gently, telling her that you know this relaxes her and she NEEDS it to fall asleep.
Emotion Grinding 10 During a BJ: "Oh come on, we know that you can suck cock better than that." Say this with authority, almost humiliating. Watch.
Emotion Hard 11 Lay two toys and a paddle out on the bed. Maybe a wood board. Just leave them there. Wait until she says something. When she does? Command her to go pick one. Don't put the other ones away. STFU. Broken record.
Emotion Hard 12 Text this meme to your woman. And STFU. Wait for a response. Later call her by her choice, or "Princess Slut" works fine. Other results here and here from MRP vets having fun trading notes.
Emotion Hard 13 WARNING: Cuckhold Trigger…....Right before penetration, stop. Get off her. Slap a suction dildo loudly to the floor and say, "I want to see you fuck this little dick before you fuck mine." Make sure it's a small dildo. It will feel like humiliation to her, which requires alot of Dominance here, but praise her like a good girl as she fucks it, encouraging her to do better so she can "have the real thing"


The spice of life. Are you boring? It's time to add some variety.

DEVI Concept Frame Required Number Item
Variety Beginner 14 Take her hand in bed and put it on your dick. Bonus if you tell her "Babe, you'd sleep better with your hand on my cock at night." Do not escalate.
Variety Beginner 15 "I'll be home in X hours. When I come home, I want you wearing XYZ, with red lipstick, a tiny bit of mascara, and ABC" - be extremely specific. If she asks why, your answer is "because that's what I want." Don't ask.
Variety Beginner 16 Add things to the shopping list, like "blowjob". When she notices it's on the list, "We will talk about this later." Act like she put it on there. Gaslight her. Tell her she's dirty. Make her believe she added it. Then later, ask her for the list, scratch it off, and pull your dick out. STFU.
Variety Grinding 17 Stick your finger or thumb in her asshole during sex and talk dirty about how tight her virgin asshole is and how you just might take it for yourself. Usually works better the first time during caveman sex from behind.
Variety Grinding 18 "If your panties get wet at all today you must text me a picture of them. Do not try and hide it from me. I will know." This works because it sets up for her to follow your directions, or you'll be "checking them" later that night, no questions asked.
Variety Hard 19 Fuck her like a whore. imagine you are paying a woman for sex and tell her to do everything you want. When done, jokingly leave and say "You were worth every penny, sweetheart."


Immersion is a difficult thing to conceptualize - but this is basically it: you have your woman in another world, where she gets to play the part that you design. All elements of DEV are required to accomplish immersion (usually).

DEVI Concept Frame Required Number Item
Immersion Beginner 20 Randomly come up behind her. The kitchen works great because she's distracted. Run your hands along her hips and then turn her around quickly. WHILE SMILING, press your hand into her throat and push her somewhat forcefully into the door/cabinet whatever where her head is resting against something with your hand on her throat. Whisper, "You're all mine. Later."
Immersion Beginner 21 During foreplay, only put the tip of your dick in there. Waller it around for a long time and tease her. Act like you're going to deeply penetrate her but never do. Make it sopping fucking wet and then tell there's no way it's going to fit. STFU. Watch.
Immersion Beginner 22 Have her lay down sitting up with her back against your chest between your legs. Take her tits out and just play with them for a long time. Enjoy it. Praise them. Put them back. Don't escalate yourself. Do this several days/nights in a row. You can choose to fuck her or not - but this method is not meant to be foreplay.
Immersion Beginner 23 Go and buy nice panties. Things you like on her. For a solid month, pay her for fucking or sucking on you with panties. Do not negotiate with her. Just give them everytime. Lots of room to treat her as a good girl, a whore, or a slut here. Some of you will go broke. Victoria Secret often has good deals and no woman ever turns down VS panties.
Immersion Grinding 24 "Why are your panties so wet, babe? Have you been thinking bad things again?" Ask randomly as you grab 'er by the pussy.
Immersion Grinding 25 Right before you cum, grab her phone. Blow a load on her face or tits or whatever and record it from your POV. Hand her the phone back and say, "You can watch this anytime you need to. But you must tell me immediately if you do." Bonus points if you ran the Holy Grail of Cum retarded science experiment for yourself.
Immersion Hard 26 WARNING: Cuckhold Trigger...... Have her sell something online. Message the listing from your own name. Jokingly pretend to inquire about the listing. Ask if you can come pick it up sometime soon, preferably when her husband is out of town. Game her. Pretend you don't have any money but can pay her in "other ways". Then show up at the scheduled time and say "When's your husband get back?" Play. The. Game. Fuck her and leave. Come back home as the husband later and if you're really ballsy - fuck her again and ask why she's so wet already.


This is all men trading notes. In time I will add to this list of cheat codes if necessary, but posting your feedback in your OYS or on this post will help calibrate what works and doesn't work. All this shit works for me. Take whatever you want, leave the rest.

Strength, motherfuckers.

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Title HornsOfApathy's MRP Cheat Codes to blow up your sex life
Author HornsOfApathy
Upvotes 217
Comments 61
Date September 30, 2021 4:05 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]hmpanon60 DoD '21 18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Many of us grew up in a dysfunctional way. One of the more commons ways is the need to be perfect. That fear of failure that makes us paralyzed. And it seeps into our OYS - when we don’t want to get banned and try to look cool. I like this “try and fail” and just share notes push lately.

[–]red-sfpplusMRP APPROVED / tells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Or tie her up in the shed at knifepoint like /u/red-sfpplus does and watch her piss herself.

This was fucking hot.

The gun did not have the same effect...

Stick with the knife.

LPT: Make sure she is dressed in old clothes you can cut off.

LPT2: I put duck tape on 1/2 of the knife blade - this adds additional safety to the fun as the side of the blade close to her will be protected.

Final LPT:

In an scenario play YOU HAVE TO SLOW DOWN. It takes time for the chemical reactions in your body to kick in. Also, sensory deprivation is critical to getting closer to making it feel real.

[–]InChargeManMRP APPROVED 20 points21 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

But, what if your wife is asexual?

Just kidding.... Nice work, organization of this is top notch.

I often wonder with content like this, how much do we need to thread the needle between pointing guys toward the path and giving "cheat codes" to help build confidence. Fake it till you make it is often good, but, we want to avoid the "this shit really works" trap. As you know, that can lead a guy into a dead-end.

I don't have the answer, but I think about it a lot when I consider making posts, particularly when it is handing out dynamite to kids, like D/s stuff. This is good stuff though, if anything, the value for a lot of new guys might be less about picking a number and emulating you and more about recognizing how pathetic their game is.

You know now next week there will be dozens of OYS whining about how they tried to get their wife to fuck a floor dildo, it didn't go well, and now they are sleeping at a motel 6...

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 14 points15 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

We both know some retard is going to jump straight into hard mode from this list because.... Ego. Shortcuts.

They were going to fail anyways. Might as well light the dynamite for them.

[–]InChargeManMRP APPROVED 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

At least this way it is entertaining.

[–]Tyred_BiggumsMRP MODERATOR / Divorced / LTR 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

100%. That’s what life is for right? Entertainment and enjoying the demise and implosion of teapots?

[–]InChargeManMRP APPROVED 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The saying is to be part of the solution or part of the problem...

I say, why not both?

[–]oobertasUnplugging 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It's what I did, and I've not regretted it.

"Choose your hard," right?

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


It's all hard. Pick your hard.

[–]BigBoiBahmani 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont know why anyone wouldnt try this out just for the fun of it.

[–]Tyred_BiggumsMRP MODERATOR / Divorced / LTR 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

now they are sleeping at a motel 6...

This is what you save your hotel points for. True story.

[–]Redpdaddyboring and sucks 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

But, but Horns...
I sprinkled some alpha and told her to pretend fucking the dildo. She got so angry, she screamed like a harpy bitch.
I tried to comfort her and sat on the dildo myself so that she feels safe. Now, she has been pegging me since and I enjoy it, finally I got a sex life.

[–]InChargeManMRP APPROVED 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't matter; had sex

[–]redpillruminationsChad's Little Brother 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Liking this, lol. Tonight: "does this shirt look too slutty?" "you know, if you're going to dress like a whore I'm going to treat you like one."

after: "so you take cash right? worth every penny."

good shit!

[–]business_-_travel 7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I love the use of spreadsheets in this post!

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Tards gonna tard man. Least I could do.

[–]business_-_travel 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Least I could do.


[–]oobertasUnplugging 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Awesome. I've not yet internalized being sexually creative. Having you and others as a model is extremely helpful when I regress to my current mean. Thanks for this and your efforts.

[–]hausofedd 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

this retard is saving this thanks for the effort sir!

[–]Jaxonking0702 3 points4 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I think you have emotion mixed up with what it’s defined as in the book.

You’re lines are just a spin off of dominance and have nothing to do with the emotion side of things.

Emotion as defined in the book talks about whispering sweet nothings in her ear. It’s more of a beta side to things than what you described.

Saying “I love you so much.”

“I’m so glad I get to fuck you forever.”

Staring in here eyes while you fuck her slow and tell her “she’s everything you to.”

You don’t have to mean it. It’s just to spark an emotion in the moment. Nothing in any of those examples is emotion lol

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

You don’t have to mean it.

Terrible advice. Let me know how that works out for your LARP.

My way is effective and congruent. Yours is lying. Guess which one women call bullshit on and it destroys the emotion?

You're focused on giving "good" emotions. Which is a mistake. They don't have to be "good". Women just want to rise the rollercoaster of feelz. Your way is like riding a fake dick.

You’re lines

Read the post. Do you think I actually say anything?

When and if I say something I fucking mean it. Rubbing he asshole to relax and fall asleep? I believe it, and execute on genuine feelz and when I say what I do, I fucking mean it.

[–]Jaxonking0702 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

You can mean it. But She don’t give a fuck if you mean it in the moment anymore than she cares about any of your other words other than how they make her feel.

Emotion is making giving her feelz. Not rubbing her asshole. That has nothing to do with emotions, that’s more variation than emotion. Reread the book

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

So how's that working out for you? Do you have any real notes to contribute or are you here to masturbate?

Because from your all 2 comment contributions and victim puke here I can't tell from your history.

[–]Jaxonking0702 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fortunately sex has never been the issue.

And I gave you real notes. You just got butthurt about it.

[–]Flash_Point_Paradox 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Did #6 this morning caveman style. Works like a charm ;).

[–]Protocol_Apollo 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good post bro.

[–]Motor_Mycologist4819 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Number 26 🤮

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

No doubt for the weak framed. When I was running this scenario I was texting /u/red-sfpplus about it. I was unsure what to do as the "husband" afterwards.

His words? Double down.

Immersion is the most difficult. I doubled down because it is a pretty supreme DNGAF frame. It's immersion. Fantasy. Who gives a fuck? So, I doubled down... And just when she's worried about her husband coming home.... He does... And brings her right back into that immersion all over again.

It's categorically hard in the spreadsheet.

Don't be such a prude.

[–]red-sfpplusMRP APPROVED / tells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No, we were not texting homo You were in Dallas when this was going on. I was giving you play by plays in the car and while we were at dinner for what to do when you got home.

So fucking bonus points for doing it 1) while you were out of town 2) half way across the country 3) making her "bottle it up" for a few days.

It was fucking glorious.

We tagged team that! lol j/k

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's right! I forgot we were in DFW when this went down. Good shit.

[–]Motor_Mycologist4819 -3 points-2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, you know, if it floats your boat, that's cool. I mean, if you get off on the thought of your wife cuckolding you (which seems to be the critical point of the fantasy) I understand that's a thing and that's fine. It's just not something that does it for me.

It's a risky game. Women love fantasy more than men, so I suppose that this might be pulled to tickle her fanny more than to stoke one's own imagination. That's not a chain I'm particularly keen on pulling.

Hypergamy isn't a passing phase. It's locked in and ever present in my wife. I also know that her 'morality' takes its lead from me. I control her outlook and her attention, but you're only as good as your last game as they say. There's no money in the bank with regard to hypergamy.

This looks a bit like showing the dog the rabbit. Her imagination is less lively than mine, not in terms of freaky shit that she can come up with, but in terms of possibilities that are available to her. I just think introducing the framework to allow her to consider giving reign to her duplicity isn't sensible. Since I'm not busting to play the cuckold fantasy, it's not worthwhile to travel an inch down that road, no matter how sure I am of my frame. I allow my wife to imagine that I think both she, and our marriage is sacred. It's a game I play. I'm not immersed in the blue pill, but I game it hard with her. It carries the frame of my expectations: marriage, family, home. Of course, all of this is contingent, though. But we don't do the cuckold fantasy because I am a god. That's the fantasy I want her to live in.

Matthew 12:31 "Therefore I say to you, any sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven people, but blasphemy against the Spirit shall not be forgiven." The cuckold game blasphemes the spirit.

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S,M] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

if you get off on the thought of your wife cuckolding you

You missed the point entirely. It's not about her.

This is close enough for me to save everyone the trouble. Banned for moralizing.

[–]Trent2270 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I actually agree with that guy about not cuckolding yourself if that fucks with the value parameters of your marriage. The dumb part is not understanding implicitly that these are examples, and some will be ridiculous for certain relationships. Many of these I’ve done… a few had me ROFL.

[–]BostonBrakeJobMRP APPROVED 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Bummer. I was looking forward to the meltdown when he finally realized why he singled this one out and dug in so hard against it.

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ha! Mirrors are assholes aren't they?

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[–]business_-_travel 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I love the MRP lurkers...

[–]oobertasUnplugging 0 points1 point  (19 children) | Copy Link

You do way kinkier shit, huh?

[–]Tyred_BiggumsMRP MODERATOR / Divorced / LTR 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sex with socks on. Can’t get much crazier than that.

[–]muzzy_W0eUnplugging / Divorced 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just go to his profile. He's all ego and no substance

[–]oobertasUnplugging 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hadn't taken the time to do that, but now I'm curious.

[–]WAAITT 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

No. Missionary only. Lights off. We use a sheet between us with a hole cut in the middle. Do you need a job man? I could use a guy like you- I bet I'd get a tax credit for hiring you too.

[–]oobertasUnplugging 4 points5 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

It's like you have red button with neon flashing around it that says "push me".

[–]WAAITT -2 points-1 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Probably start you off at minimum wage.

[–]oobertasUnplugging 3 points4 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

(Pushes button.)

[–]WAAITT -1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

You definitely have the touch man. Probably make a spot for you under my desk.

[–]oobertasUnplugging 3 points4 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

(Pushes button.)

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S,M] 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

You want to ban this guy?

[–]oobertasUnplugging 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

And lose my button? Hell no.

[–]threekindsofluckyMRP MODERATOR / Married[M] 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I do and did :)

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[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Step 1: Be attractive.

How fat are you?

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[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

If she said OK and then didn't follow through its either (in this order):

1) you're not attractive (to her)

2)you were needy when doing it

3) it's a test

4) she's a cold frigid bitch

It's never #4.

In all cases I'd double down.

"You forgot the mascara I want. Go upstairs and take care of that now, princess. See you in 10 minutes."

Then slapass, STFU, Walkaway.

And if she refuses?

Oh well, she gets the first shot.

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[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I mean, it's pretty self explanatory. She gets the first shot at fucking an imaginative, attractive, sexually masculine man.

She fully has the right to be the gatekeeper of sex. With her.

But a man who is those things is a man who fucks.

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[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Look dude, if you want an elaborate play by play on how to fuck your wife just have her send me a DM and I'll send you the video after.

Use some sense and imagination.

[–]SoggyTrainGrinding / Getting It 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

HornsOfApathy Logistics question... For number 23, when/how do you give the panties to her?

My wife needs new panties so might as well have some fun with it.

[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR / Married[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Right before cuddles in post-coital bliss.

[–]SoggyTrainGrinding / Getting It 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what I was thinking, or before the pre sex foot massage.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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