So much shit. Just read about this red pill thing, interesting stuff. I like the ideas here. Even if she doesn't change/revert back I'll atleast be taking care of my self. Here's what I've got to contend

After her first kid (previous marriage) she had serious post partum issues, was put under phsych watch for a couple weeks and diagnosed with bi polar disorder. We met and within a year she had stopped taking her meds, got re evaluated and turns out she probably never was bi polar but had severe post partum depression.

We have baby and she spirals back to where she was after her first kid. 2.5 years post baby and she has racked up 13000$ debt, fell for a mlm scam (is convinced it will save everything), back on meds, now has anger issues and zero libido. We try to unravel this shit storm, turns out She only agreed to having a kid with me because i would have left her for someone else(true). Get this she is so unwilling to work on her shit, she told me to go find sex somewhere else, because that to her is easier.

Since I can't make her happy, fuck it ill make myself happy. Zero affect on her. She takes it as a challenge to try and break me. Only time she notices is when I take the kids out and leave her behind. On the plus side i love my work and enjoy spending time with the kids. I gave her my timeline for sorting out her shit. If things haven't improved by the time our mortgage is due to renew I'm selling the house and moving on.

She has therapist, we have marriage counceling, she has dr appointment to get her hormone levels checked (her idea). So far she has decided to double down her time on the mlm and learned that she is unwilling to work on the other issues for now.

I'd love to hear some red pill input.