INTRO

We all get that the reason you found MRP had something to do with your wife not providing the hot, porn star sex that you - like most every guy - dream of. But if you can take your pathetic, loser obsession away from her for one split second, you'll realize that the world is much bigger than your marriage. As you improve, she will fade to a mere segment of that world. It comes down to mental discipline and not being a pussy.

Pussy

noun

'pʊsi

  1. A woman's genitals.

  2. A weak, cowardly, or effeminate man.

You want to go out with your guys for a beer. Your buddy texted you that he was going to hang out in the hip area of town, and you know there will be other people there. Probably girls. Your knee-jerk first thought should be ANYTHING except:

How do I tell/convince/play this off to my wife?

If you're doing anything except planning logistics - and of course informing your wife when those plans are set - then you're on the wrong track. What would make YOU happy? Then fucking do that. Don't DEER a single fucking thing except to smile a pleasant "bye bye" as you waltz out the door. Because you know what? You should be fucking enjoying your socks off with the knowledge that you are an awesome, improving, masculine man in a sea of pussies (both kinds).

But this is what trips up most of us at first: we love sex more than almost everything else. We obsess over it. We can't stay away from it without killing a part of us inside. So naturally the automatic response to a sex-withdrawing harpy is to do things to manipulate her into sex.

But desperation, like negotiation, kills desire.

What I hope you come to understand is that the alpha male, the man on top of his game, the one in full control of his life, doesn't worry about sex because sex is plentiful to that guy. So the answer for you, new guys, is to work steadily to become that guy. The big irony of the Red Pill is that taking sex off the pedestal gets you more sex. Mind fucking, right? (Pro tip: this is true of just about anything in life. Parenting. Career. Friends. Abundance mentality is powerful.)

THAT'S why its a marathon. THAT'S why it will take time. Because you've been such a pussy (see above definition #2) for so long, your journey will take lots of time. Which means you won't get the awesome sex right away. I know, I know. You don't want to hear that. But its your own fault. I hope you understand that by now.

Calm your raging boner that your wife so rudely rejected, you big captain you. You deserve a little denial for tucking those balls up into your abdominal cavity for so long. Its a natural consequence. And its also going to be ok. You've survived with blue balls this long, you can handle a couple more months until your wife starts to realize you are a man deserving of her best, most feminine sexuality.

When you are truly an improved and improving man, and she trusts that its not just a fad, and you get the awesome sex and affection you've been desiring, you'll wonder why you ever stressed about it.

DISCLAIMER

I'm not contradicting this, however. You do need to start acting like a Captain, even if she doesn't hold the same opinion of you. You might have to... gasp ...disagree with your wife.

Set your mind on this: its a marathon, not a sprint. A sprint will get your divorced. Your wife, being an emotional woman, will need time to acclimate to the new you. It may take months, or for the particularly stubborn screechtard, years. And there's always that chance she never will. Does that change your game plan? Why should it? Who are you doing this for, anyway?

You've heard that if your wife doesn't like you being the Captain, there's tons of other women who will appreciate you. I'm going to take it a step further and say that nothing, NOTHING, should be done with a woman, real or imagined, as the goal. When I lift, I assert my place in society as a strong man. When I flirt, I gain insight into the human process. When I kill at my job, I build myself a legacy. None of this is to get into anyone's pants.

Therefore, you cannot look at this as a quick fix. The means is the end.

WRAP UP

So just hang in there, soldier. It gets easier. Don't demand shit, STFU, work hard, don't worry about her. The sex will come - either with her or another chick. You'll enjoy the fruits of your labor once you've kicked your addiction to instant gratification and start developing some REALgoals.