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An unfortunate truth of our age is that a majority of men are unknowingly fully plugged-in to a reality which fully supports the female imperative. Masculinity has been under attack for at least the past 3 decades and this in turn has produced generations of ‘men’ who have completely repressed their masculine nature. These men, the ones who have been taught to bend over backwards so as to not ‘offend’ others via their manly nature have reproduced.

The offspring of these Nice Guy fathers never developed their masculine identity and have, unfortunately, lived their entire lives holding back the urges to be competitive, hidden their sexual nature, and repressed their aggressive tendencies. While this has led to men taking their lives, the trend of emasculation of all things and spaces has continued and society just steps over the dead bodies and angry men as if they were just pieces of trash floating by in the street.

If you are reading this as a man who has embraced his masculine nature then you will do well to heed my advice when dealing with the men who are still fully plugged in and supporting the female narrative as to how things should operate. If this writing offends you or you think it is completely out of touch with reality, then you are the one I am telling masculine men to work with or work around.

I mean this when I say it; masculine men need to work with guys who are still plugged in. A majority of the guys you interact with on a daily basis are weaksauce as fuck and while they truly believe they are running their life and living it to the fullest – you know the truth. The hard truth is that as long as you repress your urge to say something, or feel something, or express something you are not living at all. You are pretending – acting – filling the role society has cut out for you and there is nothing worse than going to the grave never knowing what you were capable of.

If you look at the Matrix – Neo thought he knew everything about everything: thinking that he was living in the real world. It wasn’t until that ‘real world’ was exposed as a fraud that he was able to fully embrace who he was and what potential he had. The same applies for these 'guys' that are pissing you off, the guys saying, Happy Wife Happy Life, Looks like you’ll be in the doghouse tonight, or make sure the couch is comfy… You want to shake the fucker and tell him to wake the fuck up but you can’t, not yet anyways because he’s not ready, he isn’t there yet.

I often refer to Married men being the Captain of their ship and this blog is mostly aimed to Married men or men in Long Term Relationships. In this post I want you to think of your ‘Ship’ as your life. Being the Captain of your ship is being the Captain of your life and where your ship is headed is the direction you are taking your life. Keeping this in mind, Mines will fuck a ship up.

I spent 8 years on Active Duty in the US Navy as an engineer. My ‘General Quarters' station (Battle Station) when/if shit hit the fan was deep inside the bowels of the ship. My job was to ensure that the pumps in my space continued to operate to keep firefighting stations and other systems on the ship operational. One shitty aspect of this spot was that if we hit a mine or were hit by torpedo - I was dead.

While a mine won’t immediately sink your ship, it could and it’s best not to take chances. Mines are placed in the ocean to keep waters safe for friendly ships and deadly for enemy ships. In life the masculine man goes and does whatever he wants and takes whatever he wants. That means you’ll have to travel the entire ocean, not just sticking to the ‘safe ports’. Every time you take a chance (changing jobs, cold approaching a woman, etc.) you’re going into deadly waters. Again, a masculine man doesn’t hide in the safety of his comfort zone, his ship belongs at sea. So what do you do? You learn to navigate the waters, enabling you to dodge the mines.

Another option is to act as mine countermeasure so as to clear the way for others. Dealing with plugged in (bluepill) men is navigating mines. Opening the plugged in man’s eyes, introducing him to the true reality of our society is mine counter measure. You are turning this plugged in man, the white knight, into a masculine man (hopefully).

How do we accomplish this task? Easy, by acting like masculine men. Similar to your children, other men are going to follow your example more than your advice. Want one of your married beta buddies to own his shit? Instead of telling him that the first step towards reclaiming masculine identity is To Lift you need to just go and hit the weights. From there you have two paths:

  • Wait until he notices your increased strength & aesthetically pleasing body (or he notices his wife looking at you) and then offer advice when he approaches you.

  • Tell him you are going to the gym and that he is invited. You don’t have to act as ‘trainer’ per say, but you could make it ‘bro time’ where you both make it a routine to go to the gym and hit the weights together.

The gym is the perfect place to plant seeds that will grow into masculine plants that bloom to create another masculine man. Between sets men talk shit in a brief and concise manner. Talking about wives, sex, work, sex, girls, sex, etc. is commonplace and it is here, where he is isolated, that you can just drop the comment that you’ve noticed your wife being much happier since you guys have been fucking on the daily. You can insert what the fuck ever you want, the point is you can talk a little more freely and introduce masculine living without ever saying the words.

The gym could be replaced with running, working on a car, hiking, camping, limitless masculine hobbies that get this plugged in man away from others so that he can be exposed to how real men should behave.

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