There is a good reason that you cannot take much of what a woman says seriously, and it revolves around their solipsistic nature. We know "watch what they do, not what they say."

When you take each of these following red pill truths (as written by IllimitableMen) and dissolve them together, what is left will be the essence of why we cannot take what women say seriously:

  1. Women do not care about things that do not affect them.
  2. Women do not perceive the world as an abstract entity, but merely as a stimulus that they experience.
  3. Women are highly susceptible to groupthink and herd consensus. Women do not like to stick out, they strive to be “seen as normal.

What does this mean? It means that the world for women is something that happens TO THEM. Individual women have no desire to say something that will impact the world. They don't want to be active participants in the world. They simply want the world to happen to them. individual women don't want to be innovators or leaders.

Women appreciate the herd consensus because that means the choice has been made for them. Women don't want to make choices. You have seen this when you were discussing with your wife where you should go to dinner. Remember those fiascos? And, if you were beta, you were probably being very effeminate yourself and also refusing to make a choice as well. So the conversation went in circles with neither one of you making a choice. This is an excellent illustration of women simply wanting the world to happen.

When left to their own accord, women are much more likely to watch what the herd is doing and blindly follow, even if it is to their own detriment. At least they didn't have to make a choice on their own! This is also why women can appreciate their husbands as leaders--somebody is making decisions and it doesn't have to be them.

Married red pill takeaway:

Your wife simply wants a good life to happen. Do not expect her to lead. Do not expect her to take initiative. You may expect some of these things if you are a captain and have delegated them to her, but only after you have demonstrated appropriate leadership on your part. If you are a beta shlub then you wife may be attempting to lead in some areas, but the outcome is likely poor, because doing so is against her nature.

Again, herd consensus applies to your wife watching you. She will mirror your values and leadership but only after you have taken control of your life.

So on one hand the thoughts that women don't want to make choices, rarely put much thought into their words, and likely mean the opposite of what they say, can seem depressing and a shock to the system. Get over it. As a masculine man you will use this to your advantage because it means your wife will be submissive to a strong leader. Fix yourself, and your wife will largely be fixed.