She hammered me with some mad testing today. I haven't had anything like this in a long time. Wanted to get it off my chest for some reflection.

We are sitting in the living room. I'm watching the game and she is reading her book. Keno has been good all night and I sort of wanted to bang so I move into some kissing.

  • her - your smothering me
  • me - (caught off guard a little) how am I smothering you?
  • her - you're trying to be all cuddly and shit.
  • me - why do you think that is?
  • her - I'm trying really hard lately to cuddle more in case you haven't noticed. I'm not a touchy person. If I had my way I'd never touch anyone.
  • me - (on guard now) I'm not overly cuddly myself. Why do you think I was trying to kiss you?
  • her - I don't know
  • me - you don't know why I was trying to kiss you?
  • her - no! Fuckin tell me!
  • me - what doesn't happen if I don't start kissing you?
  • her - oh I know! I'm sick of you trying to get laid all the time! Everytime you hug or kiss me, I know your just trying to get laid.
  • me - that's what you think?
  • her - yep. I'm only here for 2 things. To have sex and vacuum your floors. What have you even done this week?
  • me - you've been off all week so not too much. I made supper one night. When you worked all last weekend, what did you need to do around the house?

She storms off.

Bare in mind this happened real fast, she is full on PMS mode and I said everything with a relaxed smile. My goal was to let her rant and not argue. So I elected to only ask questions calmly. Still though, I was left with a "WTF was that?" kinda vibe.

Fast forward 5 minutes. She is in the basement and I'm thinking about the situation. I realize I can't leave it like that. She is coming back up the stairs. So I walk over, grab her by her shoulders, look her in the eyes and say:

"you're right. I do want to fuck you every night. Just because kissing you in the kitchen while making supper is viewed as for play, doesn't mean I'm not showing you I love you with it too". She gives a little smile and goes up to bed.

I go up a few minutes later to get changed for work. She is talking about x, y, z in a cheerful way. When I'm finished getting dressed, I walk over to her sitting on the edge of the bed, grab her head with both hands, tilt her for a deep kiss which she fully reciprocates and say "have a good sleep" as I depart the room.

This all may seem very trivial to alot of the dudes on here. Most FR's are about some guy who ran up some serious dread game and smashed the wife for it. This is simply showing how easy her emotions can be changed by a confident man with frame.