A fundamental core principle here is that you are the judge of yourself. This means that you have to be a very tough judge, look at those areas you never want to look at, understand your weaknesses, accept them, and then plan to overcome them. Bravery is facing these challenges, and overcoming the challenges is the source of your strength.
We have to do this evaluation all the time to improve as men. In this thread we welcome everyone to disclose a weakness they have discovered about themselves that they are working on. The idea is similar to some of the activities in “No More Mr. Nice Guy”. You are responsible for identifying your weakness or mistakes, and even better, start brainstorming about how to become stronger. Mistakes are the most powerful teachers, but only if we listen to them.
Think of this as a boxing gym. If you found out in your last fight your legs were stiff, we encourage you to admit this is why you lost, and come back to the gym decided to train more to improve that. At the gym the others might suggest some drills to get your legs a bit looser or just give you a pat in the back. It does not matter that you lost the fight, what matters is that you are taking steps to become stronger. However, don’t call the gym saying “Hey, someone threw a jab at me, what do I do now?”. We discourage reddit puppet play-by-play advice. Also, don't blame others for your shit. This thread is about you finding how to work on yourself more to achieve your goals by becoming stronger.
Finally, a good way to reframe the shit to feel more motivated to overcome your shit is that after you explain it, rephrase it saying how you will take concrete measurable actions to conquer it. The difference between complaining about bad things, and committing to a concrete plan to overcome them is the difference between Beta and Alpha.
Gentlemen, Own Your Shit.
MRP Mods host a regularly weekly review on /u/weakandsensitive's youtube channel on Sunday at 8PM CST. Think someone has made an OYS worth focusing on? Do you want your own OYS post discussed? Sign up using this link. Make sure you're signing up on the right date. Use a fake name and email.
[–]weakandsensitive[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (5 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃[M] 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]2wo2wo3hreeDaddy Issues1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]good_looking_man"I know."0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]threekindsofluckyMRP Mod 😃13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃5 points6 points7 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch332 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]substancehubPlz subscribe to my wife's Onlyfans6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SpareTireBob1 BJ / 4 Years / We didn't start the fire3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2wo2wo3hreeDaddy Issues3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on7 points8 points9 points (24 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃7 points8 points9 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch335 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃4 points5 points6 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Chuckerini5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch336 points7 points8 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on2 points3 points4 points (11 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch333 points4 points5 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch332 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Ubermensch332 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PutABabyInThat2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GorillaBreathJunior3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cho_AssmilkMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]jaackknivesGrinding - with a rubber on1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DirtyNukeUnplugging5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SeekerTRP5 points6 points7 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]BostonBrakeJobRoTY2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]SeekerTRP0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]fix-the-man1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SeekerTRP1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SpareTireBob1 BJ / 4 Years / We didn't start the fire2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]SpareTireBob1 BJ / 4 Years / We didn't start the fire4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]GetOffMyLawn744 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃6 points7 points8 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]PutABabyInThat1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]_Northern_Yeti4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]donmcde2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2wo2wo3hreeDaddy Issues3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rightsidedUnplugging3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ImpatientZen2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]itsunclejerryWhen I Need Eggs, I Feel Guilty.2 points3 points4 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]threekindsofluckyMRP Mod 😃3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]itsunclejerryWhen I Need Eggs, I Feel Guilty.1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]itsunclejerryWhen I Need Eggs, I Feel Guilty.2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ironhorizons2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[removed]
[–]threekindsofluckyMRP Mod 😃[M] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]NowEntertheArena2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]donmcde2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]NowEntertheArena1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]NowEntertheArena1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]interwebztufguy2 points3 points4 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cho_AssmilkMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]interwebztufguy1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]interwebztufguy1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]man_in_the_worldMRP APPROVED1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]interwebztufguy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat4 points5 points6 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]SeekerTRP4 points5 points6 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat1 point2 points3 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃5 points6 points7 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SeekerTRP2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]threekindsofluckyMRP Mod 😃[M] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AlphalfaSproutBloody Ankles3 points4 points5 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED3 points4 points5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive[M] 1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]AlphalfaSproutBloody Ankles5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]threekindsofluckyMRP Mod 😃[M] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]fix-the-man1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]good_looking_man"I know."1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]badaod1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]badaod2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]badaod1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]badaod1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]red-sfpplustells 1000 lb club pussies to fuck off1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]x52784391 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]substancehubPlz subscribe to my wife's Onlyfans1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheDatsyukian1 point2 points3 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]good_looking_man"I know."2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TheDatsyukian0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive[M] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AlohaMaui808Grinding / Dreadful '201 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rewire_your_brain1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Zenwarz1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ancient_resistanceUnplugging Wordsmith / Dreadful '201 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RedBackedBadger1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BootySlayer9111 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]good_looking_man"I know."2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cho_AssmilkMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]-NameWasTaken1 point2 points3 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]rpbb99991 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]-NameWasTaken1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Zenwarz1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]-NameWasTaken1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]-NameWasTaken1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive[M] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]25996401 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]donmcde1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Number_Thirty_Four1 point2 points3 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Number_Thirty_Four2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]hmpanon1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cho_AssmilkMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]hmpanon1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Cho_AssmilkMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]dust2dust452 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]R288DRO1 point2 points3 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]donmcde2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]R288DRO1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mrp_euroBorat1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]R288DRO0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SBIIIMRP APPROVED Ballbuster1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]R288DRO0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]_Manful_0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]R288DRO2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Memories_Of_Ice0 points1 point2 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED4 points5 points6 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]Memories_Of_Ice2 points3 points4 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Memories_Of_Ice2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Memories_Of_Ice2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (2 children) | Copy Link
[removed]
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive[M] 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard-1 points0 points1 point (17 children) | Copy Link
[–]SBIIIMRP APPROVED Ballbuster5 points6 points7 points (16 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED4 points5 points6 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard0 points1 point2 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard1 point2 points3 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HornsOfApathyMRP MODERATOR 😃3 points4 points5 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]SBIIIMRP APPROVED Ballbuster1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TheActionNerdDiamond Handed Retard0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]so_woke_da_wookieGrinding1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Blarg_RisenMRP APPROVED1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]so_woke_da_wookieGrinding2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]adegreeofdifference1-2 points-1 points0 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]2wo2wo3hreeDaddy Issues2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PutABabyInThat1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]weakandsensitive[M] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link