This is more of a relationship building post- just a heads up. However, it can also be used for “spinning plates:”

The concept of dread is one of the most misunderstood concepts out there....

Alright, lately I’ve been hearing a lot of talk about the concept of dread. Usually, I see people talking about it like it’s an active action to elicit a response of dread in a woman (usually in a relationship). While this concept can occasionally be effective, it is kind of like a kid playing with dynamite.

The dread levels are very specific and set up to gradually increase your value as a man, and if you are in a relationship, it should be used passively. Now, I’m not talking passive aggressively, but passively. In other words, as you improve as a man, dread is a natural response that a woman will have in a relationship or your plates will experience dread.

Passive dread is healthy as long as it is balanced with doses of comfort. In other words, you don’t want dread to spiral out of control. Passive dread is essentially a buffer and insurance against women’s natural propensity towards Hypergamy. But, it’s much more than that.

So, in order to understand the concept of dread better, let’s look at the actual levels. These should be taken slowly - general rule of thumb is 1 level every month or 2:

Levels of dread

So, understand that going through the levels of dread will give women what they desire- a man that they believe has high sexual and social market value. But, it should also be understood that you are essentially becoming a man of high social and sexual value by going through the levels of dread.

Essentially, dread isn’t about the woman or women. It is about you, and becoming the best version of you. Now, if you are in a relationship or go into one, these can be a great side effect and balance the power in your favor. Let’s face it, every relationship has a power dynamic, and if a woman says “we are equal partners,” it probably means she holds the power in the relationship.

So, dread is a safeguard.

Dread is a tool.

Dread is power.

Dread satisfies women’s propensity towards hypergamy, but you are the prize.

Dread is much more....

Women need to feel it (but they will never admit it) because it reinforces that they made the right choice , you. Of course, this can be used if you are just spinning plates also.

Don’t think of dread as “ I stayed out late and took a shower when I got home right away” to make her think I’m fucking another woman. This is active dread, and it is used by weak men who are too lazy to go through the levels of dread .

So, REALLY become a man who they KNOW has choices and can fuck other women by going through the levels of dread. It’s similar to passive income because passive dread yields rewards without effort beyond the initial efforts. However, remember that the initial efforts should be thorough, increase your SMV, and make you the man you want to be, for you... not for a woman

There is no fake it til you make it.

You either are or you aren’t a high value man, and perception is based on your actions.

Be a high value man. Don’t put women on pedestals.

YOU are the prize.