So my 13 year old son admitted to me today that he has seen a few dirty videos, and he asked me about a few acts that he saw.

I started to tell him the following:

  • when these video makers take an act of love and turn it into a power play or demeaning act, they ruin the beauty of how this can enhance love.
  • most of that stuff is acted, and that girls really dont enjoy much of that stuff you saw
  • You want to make love to a woman one day, not use and abuse them as shown in those videos.

...and hear I realized what I was saying and ended the conversation. See this advice is exactly the advice I would give in my bluepill days.. however the red pill has opened my eyes to the fact that some of those scenes women actually enjoy. Some women want to be dominated.

So I am at a bit of a loss in how to guide him. I have been raising him to be a good southern gentleman with the ladies - and since red pill I have added to to this that he also establishes boundaries and to take the role as the leader in the relationship.

But for sex - when it is time, I want him to respect her and treat her right, no matter what... but I don't want to set him up for bluepill sex.

What would you guys advise your 13 year old son?