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Reflecting upon our Successes

November 8, 2014

A lot of people, including myself, use TRP as a forum to lament our mistakes. Which is valid; we should analyze and learn from them. But it's also important to reflect upon our successes.

Things I did right before I even found TRP:

  • Married a traditional virgin catholic from an intact home who's a good mom and a good cook
  • Fucked her thousands of times
  • Fucked a few girls before her thousands of times and ignored her shit about it (don't even tell 'em, guys)
  • Ignored it for a long time when she started saying "I love you"
  • Made sure she really found me attractive
  • Played it cool
  • Maintained my emotional distance
  • Teased her and strung her along a little bit
  • Maintained my personal space and time and ignored her shit about it
  • Called her out on her assumptions of commitments which I had never made and ignored her shit about it
  • Set my boundaries early and enforced them and ignored her shit about it
  • Stood up for myself in the face of her abuse
  • Developed interesting hobbies and ignored her shit about it
  • Enforced fatherly household discipline and ignored her shit about it
  • Did the right things for my kids
  • Cultivated a successful career and ignored her shit about it
  • Became OI
  • Very recently began studying human behavior and relationships (I'm a robot or something; doesn't come naturally)

And finally I found the fucking red pill! Holy shit mind blown. I can't believe how much happier and hornier my wife is and myself also and how fast it changed. I hope I can keep it up.

Thanks everybody for making TRP happen!

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Title Reflecting upon our Successes
Author alpha_n3rd
Upvotes 6
Comments 2
Date November 8, 2014 5:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MarriedRedPill
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[–]UEMcGillMarried- MRP MODERATOR3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

A rock in a sea of emotion.

Personally I have used the previous experience as "social proof". If my wife gives me shit about my previous experience, I let her know, she got picked for the 1st string, over them. It always brings a smirk to her face. I also subtly let her know, there's others vying for her position still.

[–]strategos_autokratorMan, Married, Mod4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm new here, but I'm loving the red pill. I had studied so hard to try to improve things, jumping from one subreddit to the next trying to make sense of things, and trying piece something together that worked for me. And then here it is, already done and organized for me, with the help of many others. And it makes sense to me, which helps me feel more confident and keep frame. And the best is that the more I change, the more wife loves it.

Feel free to share more details about your challenges and successes.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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