She will never forgive you for leadership failure

BluepillProfessor · 2015-11-22T21:50:26+00:00

No woman should be shackled to a loser

It would help if they didn't all lie to us at every stage of our life about exactly what makes a loser and a winner.

literaryhunter · 2015-11-22T17:13:33+00:00

Excellent point. My first marriage failed due to my lack of solid leadership. I was a complete beta and wore my feelings on my sleeve for her to stomp at her discretion. I played the field as a bachelor for about 5 years, this was like my graduate school in RP philosophy. I am now the clear leader in a happy marriage. That's not to say that I haven't failed terribly at times but my leadership remains constant.

The_Litz · 2015-11-22T18:14:55+00:00

My gran had a saying, ' when poverty walks in the front door, love walks out the back door'

Sex and money is why people divorce, but think about it, both boil down to the man not leading. Not that Snowflake is entitled to either, but your leadership will lead to a fulfilling sexlife for both partners, and your leading will lead to healthier finances.

Leading does not automatically produce instant results. It is a sublte long term process. Solid finances come from a series of good decisions. Deciding what is needed and what is not. It won't make you rich, understand that, but it will let you live whithin your means with a roof over your head and a chicken in the pot.

MRPguy · 2015-11-22T15:59:56+00:00

There is truth in this, however the degree to which this flies depends on where a woman is in her life cycle (see The Rational Male: Preventive Medicine book).

If they are in the alpha fucks stage, then absolutely. Hypergamy dictates good genes and plenty of dopamine no matter the abuses they are subjected to (within reason, however that hypergamy will drive them to accept assaults that outsiders simply cannot understand).

If they are past all of that (ages 35+) then it becomes a bit more complex. Their hamster has to rationalize leaving in search of better beta bux vs the reality that they are past the Wall and likely won't find any sort of decent provisioning at their age.

At that stage they may become more vocal about their displeasure with you, but they probably won't leave you. Another case of watch what they do and ignore what they say.

BPP's wife likely isn't going anywhere. No only is she not going anywhere, but his comment will serve as a catalyst to propel his marriage to new heights. It is painful but his comment towards her is a harsh reminder that in the Market, he is at a peak while she is well past it. She knows this, of course, but our fem-centric society tries to tell her it isn't true.

As we know: women would rather share a successful alpha than have a beta all to themselves AND a woman wants her man to be the man other men want to be, and the man other women want to bang.

[deleted] · 2015-11-22T16:44:39+00:00

Fucking right.

For the 'glass wife' men out there... Seriously consider how fragile your marriage is, where a hurtful word tumbles the house of cards, and you'd probably be better off just ending it at that point.

whatagainst · 2015-11-22T23:01:43+00:00

The woman chooses the man, a stupid woman chooses a useless man. They both deserve each other. This pussy worshipping crap is getting really annoying on here, women aren't entirely children and have all the responsibility for their choices, or at least for one choice – of choosing a man. If she sucked at that, she pretty much sucked at being a woman.

thelotusknyte · 2015-11-22T17:32:02+00:00

Can someone link me to this story?

[deleted] · 2015-11-23T19:02:09+00:00

Ha! Fucking called it. She'll get mad, then she'll get over it. Traininthebrain called it too. The bar is set, and this will be in the background, every time she wants another power play... for a while

You called it, he's a man, and she'll forgive her feels and move on.

Know who didn't call it? Divorce jockeys

Title	She will never forgive you for leadership failure
Author	theultmatecad
Upvotes	17
Comments	28
Date	November 22, 2015 3:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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