One of the recurring themes that emerge from posts to this forum and /AskMRP is frustration that male action does not lead to a desired reaction on the part of the female. This is often served up in conjunction with a sense of frustration and anger (anger-phase posts especially drip with these characteristics). I want to remind our newer members and some of the veterans that have been coming here for a while to vent that even if you do everything perfect you are still dealing with a creature that is fundamentally alien from you in its ability to process logic and emotion.

At the heart of female communication is the principle of schizophrenia. This principle you would do well to internalize as deep as any other Red Pill truth: All female communication and thought is schizophrenic in nature. Webster defines schizophrenia as exhibiting contradictory or antagonistic qualities or attitudes. In other words, women do not think and act the way a man does because most men think and feel along the lines of cause and effect, action and reaction, goal and accomplishment. We too experience deep levels of emotion, but our emotions are a result of cause and effect. Spend a year investing in a small business only to have it fail and you will feel frustration and anger for a bit, but then you will dust yourself off and start again. A woman will start a business and spend every second of every day see-sawing between elation, frustration, fear, hope, sadness, and joy. Hell, they do this regardless if they are investing in their own business or they are a cashier at Wal-Mart.

Gentlemen, they cannot help it. It is their nature.

This principle is very easy to observe. Just listen to the bullshit they spout 24/7. They see problems where none exist. They go from tears to laughter in moments. They pitch themselves in battles with bosses or co-workers where alliances would produce better career results. For what? Certainly not logic. This is the nature of females because their neural pathways are firing along the lines of their emotions, not their logic. In other words, they are looking at the world through a lens that most men cannot ever truly see through. This is why traditional Blue Pill relationship advice is absolute garbage. BP relationship advice to men almost always comes down to being a better “listener” and communicating your own “feelings” effectively. What absolute garbage. If this is how you operate go punch yourself in your left nut immediately.

This leads us to the big problem, though. Our single brothers on The Red Pill forum can ghost a girl whose schizophrenic nature becomes too difficult to bear, but here at MRP we are living the Red Pill on hard mode. Many of us are unable or unwilling to ghost our wife who in most cases is the mother to our children. We must find a way to make it work, yet the Blue Pill advice is garbage and we cannot put our own minds in the same place as our woman because the result is frustration or even worse, you succeed to some degree and your own thinking and feeling becomes schizophrenic in nature.

This subject is deep, and there are a lot of implications for this principle. I am going to key in on one major implication of this truth for this post and will be looking in the comments for other perspectives as well. For me, this means that to successfully navigate the schizophrenic hamster that is female emotions and logic, I must to a degree be liquid in my own expectations and reactions to her highs and lows. In other words, I watch her actions and dampen my interpretation of her words. If my wife is extremely emotional, I adopt the mindset that I am a rock in the middle of her storm. She may crash and rage around me, but I will not be moved. And when she calms down she can rest on my strength. I allow her to do this, knowing that this too is a transitory state that will eventually change as well.

I am not angered or bothered by her sometimes-maddening communication style. I am not bothered because it is the same thing as when my dog barks or tries to eat something off my plate. It is his nature, and I will not be angry at him for it. Instead, knowing it is his nature I will adapt my actions and reactions to it. Again, there are many conclusions that can be reached from this principle, but my hope is that some married dude is reading this right now and his anger towards his wife dissipates so that he can be more clear headed in developing the next steps to his action plan.

TLDR;; Do not let her hamster pull you into its wheel…also LIFT!