Many recent posts, as well as some manosphere blogs speak of SMV as being linked in part to a man's ability to provide finances.
Lets talk SMV for a second.
SEXUAL market value :
Whenever guys get on here and talk about being financially stable, or making more money than "her" it looks like there is a lack of understanding of that component of SMV.
Lets talk money. Its good for food, cars, houses, paying for dates, buying yourself shit, and other nice things.
Money does not get you laid. (unless with an actual whore or "might as well be" whore )
Money provides things ( nice car, nice clothes, improved grooming / hygiene) that may help you get laid.
Some Jobs / work that provide a good salary are Exciting and provide Social Proof / Status
The $$ is just a bonus.
What does your money provide for the female? Nothing. At least not directly
She does not care how much you make for Ginatingle purposes.
Money is a provider trait.
How you use money may be an Alpha trait:
It all comes down to Tingles :
Nice tingle inspiring action vacations
Ability to provide experiences
Ability to see yourself as stable and therefore *Have** more confidence
More Available Time to spend with Her because you don't have to be out making more money
and so on.
This is not to undermine the importance of finances as a provider trait. She will still leave you if you are not providing. She may continue to fuck you, but she will swing to someone else who can provide ( again not always, but potential)
Money also is about leadership, both of yourself, of your family, and about your ability to navigate the world around you. It's like any other resource.
The pool boy still gets laid
Remember, she is USED TO YOUR MONEY. She is USED TO this lifestyle.
Use that resource to mix things up a bit, but don't put it into SEXUAL market value.
Stop mentioning your money when you talk about SMV.
No one cares.
Making a good amount is a 0 in the game, Making less than you can or have in the past, at least -1
Getting your ass back into gear and making a good / excellent living again does not +1 .