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Steel's Guide to Married Red Pill

January 5, 2019
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“This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes.” – Morpheus

Steel’s Guide to Married Red Pill (A)

Given some of the recent changes and the jump in subscribers, it is a good time to give a brief overview of MRP. Hey dude, got a minute? (A)... Let’s have a conversation (A).

What Is The Red Pill

For an answer to this, take a gander at podcast #31, start at 22:40.

Rollo’s answer - It will always be about intersexual dynamics.

Rian Stone – Game is red pill. You have to understand why things are happening and the way they are happening. He references this post (A) from back in 2009.

Rollo – Red pill is the theory, game is the testing of red pill.

Donovan – Not only understanding a woman’s true nature, but being man enough, or having the balls to act on what you know with red pill awareness.

Steel’s answer – The red pill, to me, is the truth behind intersexual dynamics between men and woman, and taking action based on that truth. Simple as that. The red pill is not “sit back, relax, and keyboard warrior away”, nor is it a wretched hive of scum and villainy. No, scratch that. We’re taking that label. MRP – A Sexual Wretched Hive of Married Scum and Villainytm.

Too many people are trying to define red pill, or have corrupted the definition. Make it simple. Intersexual dynamics and Game. That’s all.

What Is Married Red Pill

From the FAQ:

“We are men that subscribe to The Red Pill (TRP) philosophy of sexual strategy, and are dedicated to applying it in marriage or in Long Term Relationships. This sub was created independently to address the needs of married men to discuss relationships issues.

Our approach is different from /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms because those don't work. Instead, here we focus on how to become stronger men to lead our marriage and LTRs to happiness.”

Married Red Pill first is a locker room. There will be trash talk. Married Red Pill also is a laboratory. There is practical advice here. But sometimes you get a lot of spaghetti thrown up on the wall to see if it sticks. Keep that in mind.

Ultimately, Married Red Pill is a bunch of men swapping notes on what works and what doesn’t from a married perspective. If you don’t like that, don’t let the locker room door hit you on the way out.

For additional perspective on MRP and AskMRP, read this (A).

Rule Zero

Rule Zero: Stay On Topic

From ye olde TRP forum – “TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. We are not interested in debating or defending our experiences to those who disagree with the red pill, nor do we want to clog up our threads defending the morality of our choices.”

So, what does that mean for MRP? Rule Zero there is the same as Rule Zero here – mostly though we are married. Stay on topic. If you do not stay on topic, you will be banned and your post deleted.

If your post does not add value, your post will be removed. The moderators will continue to work to ensure the signal to noise ratio is correct.

What Do I Do First

You are expected to read the sidebar – all of the sidebar. You are expected to SHUT THE FUCK UP. You are expected to get up off your fat ass and go get a gym membership, and actually go to the gym. You are expected to lift heavy weights until it hurts so good at least three times per week. You are expected to stand outside on the porch for three days without food and endure all sorts of humiliation. Well maybe not standing on the porch. But you get the idea.

What don’t you do? Get an itchy trigger finger and write up a post without having done these items.

What do you do? You read this guide (A).

You chill out (A).

You start your work on the sidebar and wiki.

You make a decision to get better.

You make a damn plan.

You get to work.

STFU

If you are new, and reading this, I guarantee you that you have no idea how to STFU. Even guys who have been here a while still struggle with their STFU.

First of all, let’s cover this: you do not talk about fight club. You DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB. YOU DO NOT TALK ABOUT FIGHT CLUB! However you want to phrase it, you STFU about fight club. There’s no point in stepping on your own dick.

Second, when your wife is fighting with you, you do not engage. Do you think that arguing with her and having verbal diarrhea of the mouth is going to get you anywhere? No. Are you trying to argue with a woman’s hamster? Newsflash: women’s hamsters eat logic and shit more hamsters. You need to STFU unless you want to deal with a shitton of hamsters.

Third, don’t open your mouth if what will come out of it is unattractive. Be attractive (A). Don’t be unattractive. Call it the attractive filter on your mouth. Don’t say stupid stuff. Don’t say stuff that makes you look bad. Just shut up.

Fourth, don’t go to your wife for validating behavior. So you lost five pounds. You fixed the things around the house you said you would. You bench-pressed more than the bar. You took the car for repairs and an oil change and got it running again. Good for you. Take that cup of STFU and drink it deeply. You shut up. You don’t talk about the stuff that you should have been doing anyway. You act like a man who has their shit together. Let me repeat that: YOU ACT LIKE A MAN WHO HAS THEIR SHIT TOGETHER. Men don’t go to mommy and say “Look at me and how well I did.”

Fifth, with regards to shit tests, if you are a beginner, you need to learn how to STFU. You will be tested once you start making positive changes in your life.

Sixth, verbal intercourse is optional (A). (Note - read the comments as well as the original post).

Seventh, you have to calibrate your use of STFU. You don’t eat paint and STFU like someone with autism. Adjust and modify your use of STFU as appropriate. This is one of the best definitions of STFU out there (A).

Eighth, if you are new, you are not doing enough STFU (A).

From our resident RP philosopher (A):

“We tell you to STFU because you play the victim, you overshare your fee-fees, you ruin any respect people might have had for you. As you learn, you want to get validated: Look, I'm figuring it out! Don't do that. If you do, you'll undo your progress. Cue bad feelings, poor self-concept.”

Drink your cup of STFU. Wash it down with some more STFU. And don’t forget to STFU.

Lift

Lifting is not optional. Lifting is your foundation for what you are doing here. If you have been a fence sitter, reading the books, but not doing any lifting or taking any action in your life, you’ve done nothing.

You need to get up off your fat unhealthy BMI ass and get to the gym.

Let me give you an example from a recent u/OsmiumZulu post:

“Pick up artist Owen from RSD and fitness YouTuber Connor Murphy.

Both of these guys get a ton of response from women. Owen overcomes his sub-average appearance by having extraordinarily tight game. If you watch some of his in-field videos you will see the that most of his pick-up goes like this: 1) Approach 2) Resistance and a gauntlet of fitness tests 3) Hold frame 4) more tests 5) eventually she becomes attracted to him despite his appearances On the other hand, Connor's physique works like a cheat code in a video game. His approaches basically go like this: 1) Approach (or get approached) 2) take shirt off 3) Get number close, kiss close, F close, whatever. “

Now I’m not saying that you are going to look like Connor Murphy. But let me ask you this question. If you were fit, hot, and in shape, do you think that it would be easier to attract your wife?

Would you be attractive to all women?

Just sayin’.

The sidebar has some information here (A), but you’ll find more on places like the Stronglifts subreddit or other similar subreddits. Similarly, you can find more information here.

You want some comparison lifts? Here you go (A).

And absolutely do not get fuckarounditis (A) at the gym. You have to understand, the iron will never lie to you (A). You need to focus, have a plan, do it right. Here is a great lifting post and plan. (A)

Personally, there are lots of choices for your lifting program, but I believe the best program is the one that you can stick with, the one that gets you to open that gym door over and over. u/bogeyd6 said it best, 75% of your problems can be fixed by lifting (A).

One final note. You will not be able to outlift a bad diet. You need to figure out what are macros – these, not these (this place needs more Excel jokes). You need to eat right. Check out the references below for some links (60 DoD section). Calculate your TDEE. Decide for yourself whether the food you are eating is helping you or hindering you. I’m a big fan of keto, but you have to figure out what’s best for you.

Sidebar

Here are the sidebar links:

The FAQ - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7t5yly/guidelines_and_faq_updated_january_26_2018/ (A)

Glossary of Terms - http://archive.is/nxTLB

Other common MRP Terms - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9g4edy/other_common_mrp_acronyms/ (A)

Guide for Beginners - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/ (A)

MRP Wiki (DO NOT SKIP THIS) - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/index

Posting Quality Guide - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4z84w5/posting_quality_guide_for_rmarriedredpill/ (A)

Course Prerequisites

No More Mr. Nice Guy, by Glover - https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 , $15.47 on Amazon

The Married Man Sex Life Primer, by Athol Kay - https://www.amazon.com/Married-Man-Life-Primer-2011/dp/1460981731 , $18.99 on Amazon

When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, by Smith - https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900 , $7.19 on Amazon

Red Pill 101

The Rational Male - https://www.amazon.com/Rational-Male-Rollo-Tomassi/dp/1492777862 (note, get the paperback, because it’s harder to get rid of paperbacks than electronic books), $10.02 on Amazon. The website for Year 1 is free - https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ , but I recommend getting the paperback.

The Mindful Attraction Plan - https://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Attraction-Plan-Practical-Creating/dp/149045151X , $16.99 on Amazon

The 16 Commandments of Poon - http://archive.is/tbNzv , free

The Book of Pook - https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ ; https://bookofpook.neocities.org/TheBookofPook.pdf , free

Red Pill Sidebar - http://www.redpillhandbook.com/ , free

"I get it!" "No, you really don't." - Triadis3 - https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/7n0jcx/now_i_get_it_but_should_i_next_this_bch/dry5fsn/ (A)

I’m just going to pause for a second. Sidebar books cost $68.66. Think you can afford it? The real question you’ve got to ask yourself is, do you want to get laid? Well, do ya, punk?

Graduate Level

The Way of the Superior Man – David Deida - http://deida.info/the-way-of-the-superior-man/

The 48 Laws of Power, Robert Greene - http://www.amazon.com/The-Laws-Power-Robert-Greene/dp/0140280197

The Sex God Method, Daniel Rose

Advanced Reading List for MRP (A)

Moving to the General Awesome Guy Shit section:

The Red Pill Room - http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/

How To Win Friends and Influence People, Carnegie – http://www.westegg.com/unmaintained/carnegie/win-friends.html (A)

A River Runs Through It and Other Stories, Norman Maclean

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert M. Pirsig

IRC Chat Room For MRP Members - https://www.irccloud.com/#!/irc.quakenet.org:6667/#marriedredpill

Reference to /r/redpillfatherhood with your Daddy issues.

MRP also has a Video section on the sidebar:

BPP’s Book and Video Class on MRP - https://bluepillprofessor.wordpress.com/2015/05/22/hello-world/

RPC’s Advanced Video Class on MRP - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRCcXsJScfWlYHP5kHJqNbg

Entrepreneurs in Cars: Guys, Girls, and the 21 Convention - https://www.youtube.com/user/EntrepreneursInCars

Previous Sticked Posts that have been on the Sidebar

SteelSharpensSteel’s Breakdown: The Mystery Method - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7aeibr/back_to_basics_mystery_method_the_game_and_the/ (A)

You Are What You Eat - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3e3qc4/you_are_what_you_eat/ (A)

Body Language - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qkonn/lets_talk_body_language/ (A)

Don't fix her problem..Fix her feelz - http://archive.is/rZ7DN

New? Panicked or feeling Punch-Drunk? - http://archive.is/bAidd

dondreadpirates notes on plates while married - http://archive.is/pp1qm

Under Divorce Advice we have:

Red-Curious' Divorce Prep Guide - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6tsban/why_im_not_afraid_of_divorce_rape_and_how_to_get/ (A)

Red-Curious’ Follow up 5-step functional introduction - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/79n1mz/and_so_my_journey_must_begin/dp3mr2o/ (A)

Red-Curious’ “Beta" Divorce Strategy Planning - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/9j5cus/better_beta_divorce_strategy/ (A)

The Art of War Sun Tzu explains how to handle modern relationships and Divorce - http://classics.mit.edu/Tzu/artwar.html (A)

Pre-empting the DV Charge - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7cwvyk/preempting_the_dv_charge/ (A)

Tactics to minimize alimony. - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7tic4x/fr_the_spousal_support_scam/ (A)

The Precursors to TRP section has the following:

Practical Female Psychology: For the Practical Man -

https://www.amazon.ca/Practical-Female-Psychology-Man-ebook/dp/B00RR6RNO6

The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature - https://www.amazon.ca/Red-Queen-Evolution-Human-Nature-ebook/dp/B006O4227U

The 60 Days of Dread can be found in the References.

I would also add the following to your readings:

Top MRP Posts - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/top/?sort=top&t=all

Gilded MRP Posts - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/gilded/

You might ask yourself – why do these guys keep saying read the sidebar? - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7ewrwd/why_do_we_keep_hearing_the_redundant_read_the/ (A)

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[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S,M] [score hidden] stickied comment (9 children) | Copy Link

What Does “Good” Look Like

So you’ve found this place, either through a friend, a Google search, r/deadbedrooms (aka one of MRP’s best feeder subs), a white rabbit, or what have you. You start reading through some of the posts on the wiki. You maybe even find this post. You think to yourself, WTF is with these guys. They’re just a bunch of assholes. But damn it, that guys post right there hits a little close to home. Yeah, that one too. And that one. Maybe I should look into this a little more. Shit, is that an example (A)? Are those some success stories (A)?

What good looks like is you sitting down, STFUing, reading the sidebar, and going out and getting a gym membership. What good looks like is you losing weight, becoming stronger, becoming wiser, and not having verbal diarrhea of the mouth. What good looks like is you getting over your anger at the way things have been told to you, accepting that what is your fault is your fault, and making changes, positive changes in your life. What good looks like is you owning your shit, the good shit, the bad shit, and the spicy post-Taco Tuesday do-not-go-in-there shit. What good looks like is you becoming attractive, and stopping unattractive behaviors. What good looks like is you stop asking for permission for stuff. What good looks like is you having a plan and executing it. What good looks like is you SHUTTING UP until you have read the sidebar.

Here’s what a good first post (A) looks like.

This guy, this old timer, drank his cup of STFU. He hit the gym and lifted. He read his sidebar. You can tell when people do the work.

You want to post? Read the posting guidelines (A) before doing so.

Don’t Be A Faggot

A faggot is a guy who is unattractive, not attractive. A faggot is someone who doesn’t have any frame. A faggot is someone who wants someone else to make decisions for them. A faggot is someone who is afraid to fail. A faggot is someone who can’t do a simple Google search to answer a question. A faggot is a guy who deletes his older posts because he’s scared of his past. A faggot (A) is you, the guy in the mirror.

Here at MRP, we build men (A), not faggots.

Own Your Shit

u/weakandsensitive said it best – the best work is being done in the OYS threads. A new OYS thread starts every Tuesday and is pinned at the top of MRP. You want solid, unbiased, kick your butt feedback? This is the place to go. If you have the balls to post, that is. If your wife has your balls, then maybe you should ask her nicely if you can have your balls back before posting in the OYS thread. She might accept a footrub for permission to post. Don’t forget to set down her purse before posting.

You see people grinding away in OYS, participating away (A), working on the areas they need to work on, getting the advice and insight they need to improve week over week.

For the record, no one is too good to not own their shit. Also, OYS is not the “I'm a helpless little bitch, please hold my hand” thread. Fair warning.

The Anger Phase

Much has been said here about the anger phase. You start your reading, it will hit you like a ton of bricks. The wiki has two posts on it - https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2xi8sc/moving_past_the_mrp_anger_phase/ (A) and https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4br3sm/a_process_for_letting_go_of_anger/ (A)

You will find that the anger phase will come and go. Some folks are hit by it just once, but sometimes it hits you several times.

You have to realize that it is your fault, you complacent sack of blue pilled trash. The real question is, what are you going to do about it. So many people seeking validation and not killing their ego (A), not working through their own bullshit. You can wallow in your anger, or you can take it out on the iron. There’s a reason why we say getting married is like playing on hard mode (A).

AskMRP

First read this (A) ; then read this (A) ; then read this. (A). Plus a couple of warnings for you.

If you want to post in AskMRP without fifty responses of “Faggot”, then follow the instructions.

If you ask a dumbass question, be prepared for dumbass responses.

If you ask a question that can be answered on the sidebar, be prepared to be called a faggot, and for people to direct you to the sidebar.

If you ask for permission to do something, you will be called a faggot.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret. AskMRP is for those guys who want to be spoonfed and aren’t doing any work. Are you one of them? Do you want a handout? “Please sir, can I have some more?”

Rarely will we get an on-point question. Those will be answered typically civilly (as civilly as a locker room can be). You can tell who does the work and who wants a handout. Don’t be the guy who wants a handout.

MRP and Safe Spaces

MRP is not a safe space (though we follow Reddit’s content policy and actively enforce it). We don’t believe in trigger warnings. You will be subject to microaggressions. We don’t do no-platforming here – all topics are on the table as long as they comply with Rule Zero. No jazz hands allowed. No snowflakes allowed. WE WILL USE CAPITAL LETTERS AND WE DON’T CARE IF YOU ARE TRIGGERED! (Yes, this stuff all happens at universities nowadays). Some of us have binders full of women (I’m looking at you, u/red-sfpplus). And most of us are just deplorable. This is the desert of the real here. You will be constantly tested. Reference the male social matrix described here (A).

Ultimately, MRP is a bunch of guys swapping notes on what works and what doesn’t from a sexual strategy point.

There are also other unspoken rules of MRP, but you’ll figure those out if you stay a while.

Flair

Every so often you will see a guy post with a flair attached to his name. From the post on flair:

“Do not ask the moderators for flair. Moderators assign flair and is informational only. The purpose of Flair is to provide people some ability to weight the answers provided by different users.

The flair of MRP APPROVED means that the person provides reliable "Red Pill" advice and he understands the principles and applications that we use. Most likely this person has read the Sidebar books and has studied Red Pill for several months. Anything said by a person with this flair should be considered very carefully before you reject it.

The flair "HARD CORE RED" usually identifies a man from the main /r/TheRedPill Reddit full of piss and vinegar and a take no prisoner's attitude towards masculinity. A few of these guys are married and 'spinning plates' (i.e. married with one or more "girlfriends") so bear that in mind when considering their comments.”

There are a few others, like TRP ENDORSED, “Told Death to Fuck Off – MRP is easy mode”, MRP MODERATOR, Grinding, Unplugging, Gay Unicorn… you get the idea. Don’t ask for flair. It will be given to you, if you’re worthy… or stupid. To paraphrase Forrest Gump, Value is as Value does.

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[–]simbarlionMRP APPROVED 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Outstanding research.

I would like to add for any newbies some meta to this amazing detail based on my experiences.

1) MRP provides skills and advice. Lift, STFU dread, game, frame, OYS, etc. It goes on. You need these skills.

But,

2) MRP cannot fight your internal battles with lack of sex, validation, neediness, attempts to change 'her', fears of divorce, cheating or loneliness.

1 by itself won't solve 2. You're on that path alone.

Face your fears.

[–]FoxShitNasty83Captain of the HMS Fucktard 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well said

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow. The ultimate MRP guide. Thanks bro for such valuable content. It was very hard for me to understand or actually believe all this. It took me a year to finally swallow the pill. I burned my marriage after a year of ramboing and monkey dancing. I’m finally getting it, but this is a hell of a blueprint for people like me that are starting from scratch. Have my upvote.

[–]FoxShitNasty83Captain of the HMS Fucktard 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Fucking hell steel, write a book already!!

Seriously this is good shit all in one place!

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Late this year I'll start work on that. Good idea.

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think I know who should be the next mod here. Excellent summary.

Red pill is...

...First and foremost a sexual strategy

...Not about her

...A praxeology and not a verb

...not political

...not easy

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

... and you have to lift.

[–]JDRoedellMRP APPROVED 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. Since it’s like breathing to me now, I sometimes forget to mention it

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I know who should be the next mod here

Hah! Good call.

[–]weakandsensitive[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've added it to the top under "NEW? START HERE!!"

[–]gvntrGrinding, 60+ 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuckin A', what a lot of hard work.

Well done!

[–]rAFCdadHUSBAND 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I'm making it a personal mission to ensure that most or all of the books are available as torrents.

Personally, i no longer use hardcopies- i use my subscription to audible.com as a 'permanent' store and it is more efficient and i can listen to books whilst in the car now. Plus hard drive backups.

I'm off to lift weights until exhaustion.

[–]SKRedPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Try library Genesis. It'll last. And most of the stuff is already there.

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[–]rAFCdadHUSBAND 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

No i don't think so. Some of these exist as .pdf's only.

I hope i did not create the impression that all the books are on audible ... torrent files are your friend.

[–]rocknrollchuckMRP APPROVED 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great job Steel! Now nobody coming here has any excuse to say they didn't know, it's ALL HERE.

This is Sidebar worthy.

[–]Kpwn88 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

women’s hamsters eat logic and shit more hamster

Someone buy this man a beer.

[–]ParaXiloin limbo of fuckarounditis 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This could be it's own God damn book. Well done.

[–]magicmetagic 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bravo

[–]KingUmed 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Holy Moses! If this isn't at the top of the sidebar before I get back from Orlando it will be!

Fantastic summary of the work of tens of thousands of men over 1/2 decade.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think I blew my word count for the year. Ah well, there's always 2020.

[–]FeralRed 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy Shit.

Close the fucking subs.

All you need is here.

Drop the mike Steeley, fantastic performance.

[–]becoming_alphaGrinding 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy crap Steel, this is fantastic! You've brought it all into one place with logical organization and enough depth to keep me busy improving myself indefinitely.

Have my biggest upvote.

[–]SKRedPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This needs platinum.

[–]gettingmymojobackMRP APPROVED 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Slow clap!

Well done putting this together as a resource for new guys just finding this place.

They have no idea what a service you have just done them. And truthfully 95% of them won’t apply it and don’t deserve it.

[–]alphasixfourUnplugging 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Wow. This is almost too good. You made it too easy for the faggots who stumble in here punch drunk and crying about chad to find everything. How am I supposed to make vague references to things buried three layers deep in the sidebar and call newbs out as faggots for not knowing it? It’s all here!

Thanks for putting all of this together. So well written and presented.

Alas I have but one giant upvote to give.

[–]BobbyPeruMRP APPROVED[🍰] 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Wow. This is almost too good. You made it too easy for the faggots who stumble in here punch drunk and crying about chad to find everything.

Nah, they’re too lazy and fat to read it. They would have already read and absorbed the sidebar.

Faggots will continue to be faggots

Great fucking post though!

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Truth right here. People are great at skimming for what exactly they THINK they need to know.

[–]BobbyPeruMRP APPROVED[🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

People are great at skimming for what exactly they THINK they need to know.

Yep, that’s why 9 times out of 10 guys are asking the wrong questions in AMRP.

[–]alphasixfourUnplugging 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Good point.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yep, too many examples on OYS where people had to go back and read a 101 book because they skimmed it, and didn't get the core concepts.

[–]Maximus_Valerius 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I can attest to this because I am one of those examples. But for me OYS is where I learn about my blind spots and the parts of the 101 books that I read but, because of my ego, didn't think applied to me.

[–]BobbyPeruMRP APPROVED[🍰] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There will always be blind spots. The rabbit hole runs deep

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[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey MGTOW, you gonna do any work?

[–]ThunderTummy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Most of the links in the MRP wiki seem to be down.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I checked them all, they are working.

[–]limitless0o 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Great post. Thank you. Pardon my ignorance, but is this information actually on the sidebar? It appears like the sidebar is rather bare. Maybe this is intentional? Still, I think it would help newcomers such as myself to see a synopsis wiki style collection with these links. Obviously up to the mods but if there's any way I can help let me know.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMRP MODERATOR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, it’s the first post. Check the old format.

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