It's pretty normal for men to go through an anger phase as they digest the red pill.

"I wouldn't be here on you post if you weren't such a vagina and had to complain about people asking basic questions"

When you see a post that might be helpful for your particular situation, you can agree with it or disagree with it, take the advice or don't take the advice. Debate the merits of the post, point out it's flaws. But what you should not do is assume that a post is about you and go attack the author of the post for not understanding your personal situation and how it's totally different from what he posted about.

Channel your anger into your lifts. Don't get mad at your wife, your children, or other posters on reddit because of your failure as a man.