TL:DR Keoni Gault a/k/a Dave from Hawaii was the first one to blog about going Red Pill in his marriage. In fact, he may be the one who first used the Red Pill / Blue Pill analogy when it comes to the manosphere. His posts have some good advice, but mainly provide a great motivational story for married men everywhere. This is a compilation of his posts about the Red Pill and success in marriage.

Most people think Athol Kay was the first one to bring the Red Pill into the realm of marriage. Few people know that there was someone who jumped into the realm at least six months before Married Man Sex Life went live.

“Dave from Hawaii” was a commenter on Roissy’s original blog before it became Chateau Heartiste. He had made a series of comments talking about how he applied the things Roissy was writing about to his marriage. Roissy himself noticed the comments, and compiled them into the first post about red pill marriage I could find in the modern manosphere. [“Relationship Game Week: A Reader’s Journey”] (http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/14/relationship-game-week-a-readers-journey/) remains one of the best starting points for married men trying to turn their marriages around. While the post offered great hope and inspiration for many married men who were facing a dead bedroom, the post did not have any real in-depth advice. Fortunately, with a little digging, I found the rest of the story.

The journey takes us to the blog of [Hawaiian Libertarian] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/), where Keoni Gault (a/k/a Dave from Hawaii) has been blogging since 2007. His blog has focused on a few topics since he started, and he has said himself that the subject matter he writes about tends to follow what he is interested in at the time. As the name of his blog suggests, he tends to focus on more Libertarian topics. Sometime around 2009, he discovered the MGTOW movement and started following it.

  • [“PUA vs. MGTOW”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/01/pua-vs-mgtow.html) His first post on the topic. He urges married men to explore PUA material and websites and put it to use in their marriages. He disagrees with both the PUAs and MGTOWs who say that men should not get married.

  • [“Humans Were Designed to Mate & Reproduce”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/01/humans-were-designed-to-mate-reproduce.html) His second post on the topic where he replies to some specific comments from his first article above and defends his contention that marriage is the right thing for men to do. This post gives some practical advice, but mostly gives a great source of motivation for any married man facing a dead bedroom. I know that when I read it I felt much better about being able to turn my own marriage around. I still read it from time to time when I need a boost. He also links to two original John Ross articles that lay out some beautiful Red PIll advice from the early 2000’s.

  • [Relationship Dynamics] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/09/relationship-dynamics.html) This post is exactly what its title says it is. He cites to Roissy’s Sixteen Commandments of Poon, and is the first time he directly references an explicit PUA site and PUA tactics. He starts to lay out exactly how to turn a marriage around with the Red Pill.

  • [“Game is the Red Pill”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/09/game-is-red-pill.html) This is the first time anyone has applied the Red Pill / Blue Pill analogy to sexual strategy. I think it is safe to say he gets credit for being the first to use the term, a full six months before Athol Kay even publishes a single word.

  • [“When She Askes You About Your Past... THIS is how you respond”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/10/when-she-asks-you-about-your-pastthis.html) A little bit about shit tests here.

  • [“It’s All About Hypergamy”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/10/its-all-about-hypergamy.html) This is the best explanation of Hypergamy that I have found so far, especially as it applies to marriage. (With apologies to Rollo Tomassi.)

  • [“PUA for LTR”] (http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.com/2009/12/pua-in-ltr.html) This is perhaps the best post of all of them. Expanding on the original Roissy / CH post, he goes in-depth and explains exactly how he turned his own marriage around, his mindset, and how far he has made it since making the changes. This is the post for anyone who read the original Roissy / CH post and wanted more. If you read nothing else, read this one.

  • "Gaming the Curse of Eve" An interesting Biblical take on game. It all goes back to Adam and Eve. This is a completely different perspective that explains a lot about why women are the way they are.

There is much more to be harvested from his site, but this should whet your appetite for more Hawaiian Red Pill, so check him out.


Edited: Here are the rest of the links I harvested when I ran through his site. It goes through about February of 2014, so there may be some more since then. I do not have time to give more descriptions, but a few of them are good for married life.