I have been moderating this sub for nearly two years now and have watched it grow from a tiny 1,500 member group of mostly hard core, seasoned Red Pill guys into a much larger group, most with considerably less seasoning.

Due to the drift in quality and content, we recently posted new guidelines. In order to keep up the high quality of posts on MRP we have expanded our little brother forum, /r/AskMRP to take the newb questions and, low(er) quality posts especially from Red Pill tourists, and especially for new guys taking their first steps into the long, often painful process of unplugging.

Please note that the rules for /r/AskMRP are basically the same as for MRP. No concern trolling. No women giving advice to men! Red Pill women are always free to offer the wife's perspective: Please take note of the difference between a woman saying:

"My husband would not tolerate X, Y, or Z"

and

"You are being a loser who needs to stand up to his wife."

The former is the woman's perspective as a wife and is encouraged. The latter is a woman giving advice to men and will get you banned from both /r/AskMRP and /r/marriedredpill.

To all you new guys:

*1. Read the MRP Sidebar

It is THAT way========>>>>>>>>>>>>

*2. Post your questions on /r/AskMRP and (where some of the best work is being done for new and old guys alike) on the "Owning your Shit" weekly thread stickied on the sidebar. This is a confession thread where we acknowledge our mistakes, direct others on how to avoid similar mistakes, and explain what we are DOING to re mediate the error(s). Remember: ACTUS NON VERBA. We want to know what you are DOING. The question is not what you plan to do, but WHAT HAVE YOU DONE.

*3. Get a little bit better every day- start at the gym. The tactics we teach work- and they work frighteningly well if you do them slowly and methodically. If you barge in and try to reset your marriage without doing the work of self-improvement first then don't blame us for the divorce. We warned you- many times.

Which leads us to perhaps the most important rule:

*4. GO SLOW! When you find the steps of Dread there is a tendency to skip all the way to level 7 (learn to flirt and approach random women) 8 (show your wife your ability to flirt with other women) 9 (soft ultimatum- set your terms for staying in the marriage or even 10 (meet the terms I have set or else I am out).

This is WRONG...WRONG...WRONG. TAKE A MINIMUM OF ONE YEAR OF IMPROVEMENT before you start making your demands known verbally. Women communicate COVERTLY and that is how you should communicate until the point when you really, and truly are "done" because you have done all you can do before you got to that point.

Finally,

    1. Welcome.....to the real world.

Your eyes hurt because you have never used them.