First time post, but took the rp three years ago. Bumpy fucking ride so far, but I feel like I have my balls back.

I lift, I am jacked with abs. I dress well. I am successful professionally. I am the center of attention with all of our friends. I am good to her family and she agrees. I have become comfortable telling her no when she asks me to stupid things that she can easily do. She calls me an asshole and I always reply that I am her asshole with a grin. I am a good provider to her and our two kids and she agrees.

But rarely approaches me for sex. Often ruins sex by telling me to hurry up. Lack of enthusiasm but SHE always makes sure she orgasms. I lick everything on her and she loves that.

I am getting better at passing her shit tests.

Appears to have several chips on her shoulder: She acts like a child when I receive more attention than her. Makes comments that she has no control over finances (she has a HEALTHY budget...big) and she is NOT good with money management. Always thinks I am tired of her and want other women (I do find other women attractive but want to fuck her only). Always whining....even when I try to mover her during sex. Her father was not a leader in her upbringing.

Sorry for the rant, but what the fuck!!!!! How can I be the man she respects, admires, and wants to fuck.....always? What am I not seeing?