A quick background: I'm high SMV, strong frame, sex is frequent and kinky and wife is very into it.
My wife has begun apologizing for "bad behavior", and I'm not 100% clear on what the best way to play it is.
For example she's had a very stressful week at work and it has been affecting her mood. This morning she did some stupid stuff. She snapped at me a few times, which I just A&Aed. But she also undermined some stuff with the kids - I'm in charge of breakfast as she leaves for work early, and consistency with kids is important to keep the whining to a minimum. My daughter won't eat her cereal and is crying, and apparently this stressed my wife more because suddenly she swoops in and pours raisins on it to get her to eat it. Neither my wife or I want them needing raisins or sugar on their cereal all the time, and now both of them will be whining for that the following days.
I told her that wasn't ok before she left, and she got annoyed at that.
Then I get a text where she says she's stressed at work and sorry for not being fair.
I reply "I have an idea on how you can make it up to me in bed tonight ;)"
She replies "ok and then I expect some understanding of what I'm dealing with in return"
I didn't reply to that.
She's apologized for some other stuff too the last couple of weeks, and I'm not 100% sure on how to respond. The stuff she apologizes for isn't something she needs to apologize for or I've ever asked her to apologize, and I'm surprised she does it at all tbh. I've just let it slide, but this time I turned it sexual like I do with lots of stuff but I'm not sure it felt right this time. Looking at the text I wrote it could look like negotiating desire, which really isn't something I need to do as we're having plenty of sex. I don't know if she read it as flirtatious or as something else.
So, help me out with some better responses to her apologizing :)
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